Constructive:
1. Pray/meditate on scripture, etc.
2. Exercise
3. Get adequate sleep
4. Healthy eating
5. Conversation with spouse
6. Relaxing activity like reading, listening to music, going for a drive, etc.
Destructive:
1. Bash myself
2. Cease prayer, etc.
3. Eat
4. "Escape" via some obsessive mental activity
5. "Escape" via the 'Net
6. Push my spouse away or try to pick a fight with him for no reason.