Originally posted by DMickey28
The most important things to me are:
1. Trainability
2. Very affectionate, will cuddle with us
3. Will be good with Kids eventually, if socialized as a puppy
4. Won't eat my cats
5. Watchdog, but doesn't need to protect, just alert if something is amiss
6. Smallish.... would like a lap cuddler, but must be under 30-40lbs.
7. We are not big lovers of the terriers....
What would you recommend? What kind of dog do you have?
RE: BICHONS (1 to 5 star rating)
1. ** Bichons can be selectively deaf. Of course every dog is trainable, but it is recommended that you never let a Bichon off lead. Our male thinks "come here" means "run away real fast". Our female comes right when you call her--but give her time, she's still a puppy.
2. ***** They are the king of the lap dog, IMHO. They are sloppy kissers too. As my husband says "The dogs don't sleep with us. WE sleep with the dogs."
3. ***** Their reputation for being good with kids is one of the main reasons we chose the Bichon when were married 14 years ago. And they are sturdier than they look.
4. **** While it's doubtful that a Bichon would eat a cat, he may like to chase it. But more probable -- he may just prefer to use the cat as his personal pillow.
5. ***** For barking when someone is at the door.
* For actually showing teeth to the perpetrator. More likely to jump on them and demand to be picked up.
6. ***** Definitely under 30 lbs. Our's keep getting smaller. The first who was born in 1990 weighed 26 lbs. The second was born in 2000, and he weighs 16 lbs. Beanie the Meanie was born in 2003 and weighs 11 lbs soaking wet.
Just want to add--they need lots of grooming, but they are happy to sit on your lap and watch TV with you while you brush them.

They can be tough to housebreak.

They sometimes can be a bit airheaded and forget why you let them outside.

Also, not a good breed to get if you are gone all day.
Good luck!