Does your partner know your current (correct) weight?

[dislaney]

We haven't talked about it but he probably knows an approximate.

 

[rie'smom]

I have nothing to hide from the man, but the answer is still no, because I don't even know my current correct weight. I have feelings about women/young girls, self esteem and scales, so I have never owned one. The only time I know how much I weigh is when a doctor tells me.

After an extended hospital stay for anorexia when I was 30, I had no scales in my house. I knew though by my waist measurements how much I weighed. We do have a bathroom scale now but I still go by measurements. Every 1/2 inch = 5 lbs
Oh and I'm at a healthy weight today.

My husband, I think, knows about what I weigh. I don't care if he knows or not.

 

[FireDancer]

My dh knows my weight now and he knew my weight before wls he loved me when I was 363 and now at 190ish.. I dont care who knows what I weigh obviously

Congratulations.

 

[luvmarypoppins]

Dh knows my weight. He goes to all my cancer appts. and drs. visits so he sees and knows everything. I lost like 60 lbs. but I have gained back about 30 of it.

 

[Angelhalo]

Sure, why not? The moment I am ashamed to tell someone what I weigh is the day I need to re-evaluate my habits. It isn't like they don't see you naked anyway.

Some of us have already re-evaluated our habits and are making changes in our lives, even losing weight as we speak. (just because we're overweight doesn't mean we're automatically stupid, blind, or deluded) But, that doesn't mean we have to feel comfortable sharing our weight either.

DH doesn't know my weight. Does he know I'm a little extra curvy? Sure! Of course he does. But, he has WAY underguessed my weight before when looking at certain weight restricted recreational activities and if he thinks that's what I weigh then I sure as heck am not going to correct him! LOL!!!!

 

[FireDancer]

Some of us have already re-evaluated our habits and are making changes in our lives, even losing weight as we speak. (just because we're overweight doesn't mean we're automatically stupid, blind, or deluded) But, that doesn't mean we have to feel comfortable sharing our weight either.

Um, alright. I said what I would do, not what you or anyone else should do. No need to take it personal.

 

[locolala]

Since we go to the gym together every day, and I weigh myself once a week with him there, he knows how much I weigh. I'm now 10 lbs below my pre pregnancy weight and I've got about 10 to go to my goal.

 

[Angelhalo]

Um, alright. I said what I would do, not what you or anyone else should do. No need to take it personal.

Um, alright. Well I just thought it sounded smug.

 

[lacrosse_lady72]

I'm currently 126 pounds, so now everyone that reads this knows. Of course DFiance has an idea, but it's not like I tell him every second. Last time we exchanged weights though, I was 132 and he was 203. I've been in the low 200s before and he knew then too, I've also been as low as 105 and he knew then too. I don't care, weight is only a number to me. However, I know it's not the same for everyone so I think of it as one of those things that if people share it, great, if they don't, great also.

 

[redlight]

My last boyfriend (we broke up recently) knows my weight because I told him. I struggle with it, and I need to let people close to me know that I am watching my weight. I could tell that he was surprised by how much I weighed, as he thought it was much less.

 

[focusondisney]

Nope. Married almost 33 years & he's been nice enough to never ask. I've gone from a size 7 to a 14, now a 12. He's never even mentioned that my clothes size has gone up. I love that man!

 

[Jennasis]

Yes.

 

[pixiewings71]

No exactly but he's got a ball park figure. I know his in the ball park too. Not exact tho. I'm currently at about 135, would like to be at 125, I want to join the new gym that just opened by my house, especially since they have a pool, I'd LOVE to be able to swim again!!

 

[beattyfamily]

Nope! He doesn't know and I'm never going to volunteer that bit of information.

He 'thinks' he knows and takes guesses and it's always a lot less than I really am. Makes me feel good. I bet he does that on purpose.

 

[SaraJayne]

My last boyfriend (we broke up recently) knows my weight because I told him. I struggle with it, and I need to let people close to me know that I am watching my weight. I could tell that he was surprised by how much I weighed, as he thought it was much less.

DH was very surprised by mine, too. Dude, you see me naked every single day...how can you be surprised?

 

[SaraJayne]

If I weighed 125 or hell, even 150, I wouldn't be shy about sharing that!

Frank, I'm waiting for you to share your weight, since you aren't ashamed of it.

 

[worm761]

He knows mine and I know his. We both weigh each other in front of the other. It doesn't bother me at all. Weight is a number. Now, I am currently trying to lose weight (the I quit smoking weight that was followed by the I got pregnant weight!) so I am using a food tracker and have a spreadsheet to keep things honest.

 

[snarlingcoyote]

I used to know someone who lost something like 85 lbs and her husband never said ANYTHING about her weight loss!

Apparently, his mother had instilled in him at a very young age that a gentleman never, ever, on pain of death, notices or at least acts as though he notices these things and he certainly never, ever comments on his wife's weight.

She nearly divorced him when she was at her goal weight over this too - she wouldn't bring it up, and he wouldn't mention it and she just fel like he didn't care - but once it was finally all out in the open, he was, eventually (following her purchase of a new wardrobe ) forgiven, I understand.

 

[mombrontrent]

yes we both know what each other weighs, we step on the scale all the time in front of each other when we both happen to be in the bathroom. It never occured to my to not share this info with my husband. I actually thought all spouces whould know each others wieght. It seems very odd to my that some people could be married over 30 years and never have the topic brought up

 

[AustinTink]

I never tell my husband my weight, yet, somehow he always guesses correctly. Damn him.