My DH has been a stay at home dad for over a decade. He has never cooked or cleaned. We have a cleaning lady who comes in every other week, but otherwise the house is a pig sty unless I clean...I really don't think it is fair for me to have to clean when I've worked all day and he has been at home. (The kids have been in school all day for years.) Food situation is terrible...he serves leftovers from what I've cooked over the weekend.
If I were giving him a job evaluation, he'd fail and be fired.
Can marriage counseling help this situation? I've always heard that you can't "change" your spouse, but that's exactly what I want to do. I don't want to be told to lower my standards - if I did that the health department would be at our house.
If I were giving him a job evaluation, he'd fail and be fired.
Can marriage counseling help this situation? I've always heard that you can't "change" your spouse, but that's exactly what I want to do. I don't want to be told to lower my standards - if I did that the health department would be at our house.