OP--I think your cousin should stay out of it.
My DS15 has learning disabilities, including a writing disability, ADD, a math disability and a reading comprehension problem as well. Even with all these deficiencies, he has a 126 IQ, so he definitely does not lack intelligence

. I went to an Exceptional Children's conference once and a doctor named Mel Levine said something that stuck in my brain. He said "Only in school are we expected to be good at everything". He believes that even as children, our brains are specialized to be good at certain things. DS' skills lie in more in computers and engineering.
Yeah, this I don't get. To graduate from any grade you should have to demonstrate your proficiency at reading, writing, math, science, history, and every other subject at that grade level. If you can't you get to do it again.
That's not how it works if you have a diagnosed disability. For instance, DS has dysgraphia, which is the writing form of dyslexia. His physical writing is seriously at a 2nd grade level max and will never get any better. He has accommodations for writing tests, such as extended time and he gets to use a word processor. Since his disability affects spelling, capitalization and punctuation, those things are not counted against him. His writing content is scored the same as anyone else's aside from these things. Accommodations are measures that are taken to even the playing field between them and the "normal" children. I say "normal" because my child is more well-rounded than many of the non-EC kids I know.
Um, ok, so they had to have their text books read to them (via tape) vs reading the books themselves, they were still able to comprehend what they learned and passed all the tests and course requirements to get that degree--how on earth does that devalue what someone else has done? I sure hope you never have to experience a learning disability--or say a stroke that causes you to lose the ability to read because you know, that will instantly make you dumb

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DS reads the books AND listens to them, so he does twice the work. His reading comprehension is not great, but his listening comprehension is amazing. Even if you just listen to a book, it takes the same amount of time or more than reading it(no skimming or scanning when you listen)
Part of the curriculum is reading comprehension. Listening to books on CD or the computer is not reading comprehension, it is listening comprehension. While both are important but both are still necessary. They can use those methods in classes that aren't testing reading. My degree is in business and computers and I still had comp and lit classes in college. If I didn't pass I wouldn't have graduated, just like all my other classes.
Another very important part of any college curriculum is composition. If someone can't read at a college level will they be able to compose a paper that is worth of a passing grade in college? Maybe they can, maybe they can't, I have no idea. I imagine there are those who can not.
I believe that there has to be a minimum for someone to receive a standard diploma and especially a degree. This should include whatever the minimum science proficiency is, what ever the minimum math proficiency is, and whatever the minimum reading proficiency is. As some PPs have stated, you can get a different diploma from the schools you have a right to attend but college is not a right. It is something that you have to show a minimum level of knowledge to even attend, or at least you should. The selectivity of college and the inability for everyone to get a degree is part of what makes a degree valuable.
This of course is just my opinion.
As far as I know, there is a not a reading class required in college or high school. It is English or Language. There is reading involved, but if someone has a reading disability, there are accommodations--one of which is listening to the information on CD or tape. Accommodations need to followed even in college. It is part of the IDEA act.
And DS can write well on the computer. He has problems with reading comprehension and physical writing, but he is great at writing a paper. He has always scored 4-5 years ahead on the vocabulary part of the IQ test, and is very articulate, which transfers to his writing.
Oh, apparently I misinterpreted the bolded statements made below:
Yes, you test out of classes by excelling in the subject. Not by bombing the test so badly that you have to have special accommodations made.
They don't give you special accommodations because you bomb a test; they give them to you because you have an identified learning disability and IT'S THE LAW
It isn't hard to comprehend if you aren't completely obtuse about what special education is. Some posters here would prefer to see a math genius work fast food if he or she can't spell or write very well. Some of the attitudes here just astound me--it's as if they're saying, "Let's limit people and limit our society's potential by telling people that if they have a road block in one area, they aren't capable of doing
anything."
(Oh, and btw, the sixth grade level isn't that low. I read posts here all the time that are written at lower than a sixth grade level. The news is written at that level, and newspapers at the eighth grade level. And there are LOTS of people working on higher degrees who didn't score so well on the verbal part of the GRE--they're generally studying math.)
Isn't it amazing that when we are adults, we all specialize in what we are good at, and that is accepted as the norm? I'm good with kids and enjoyed school, so I became a teacher. My friend was good at math and science and loves animals, so she became a vet. My cousin is a computer whiz, so he went into IT. Why, oh, why can't we see that even as kids, our brains are specialized to be better at certain things. Just because my kid can't pass Algebra to save his life doesn't mean he should work at
Walmart when he grows up! It just means, he won't be a mathematician or anything else where he needs more than basic math skills.
I just hope some of you who have such strong opinions on EC kids and how they are less than other kids(sorry but this is the way some of the posts have come off) never have a child with special needs. Noone in my family ever had learning problems, so it was a rude awakening for me.
Right now, I am learning that although DS only has to make it through 2 basic maths, algebra and geometry to graduate, if he doesn't get through algebra2 and advanced math, he won't meet admission requirements for many colleges. So, what exactly is a child with a math learning disability supposed to do?

He just got done with algebra and barely passed with a 73(second time taking it) He will get through geometry, as he is good with visual things, but Algebra 2 and Advanced math are probably not gonna happen without divine intervention.He will probably be taking those classes 2-3 semesters each in community college with a tutor before he passes in order to transfer to a 4 year college, where he will never take another math course again.
