We also prefer late seating. I noticed several posters mentioned the cheese platter from room service. We usually went to the lounge (Cadillac on the Wonder) and ordered the cheese plate there. The bar tender went and picked out the cheeses for us and she really enjoyed trying us on different things. By the last night, she had a plate of our favorites waiting for us when we arrived for our pre-dinner coctail. We made sure to mention her on our comment form.
We have done late seating on both. We ordered room service for a snack went to the shows and it worked out great.
I would recommend it. even with children late worked fine. 



so I will make it a point on Pirate night to sneak out by 9:30 or so in order to be there for the beginning of the party. No biggie right? Thanks again!! Oh one more thing does anyone know which night the party occurs? I thought I read the 2nd night??