I don't hate Stitch, but I'm also not a big fan. Our family has always held the mantra, "Can't knock it til you've tried it (unless it's life threatening)", so I've gone on twice in my life. The second time the overhead harness didn't sit on my shoulders right, but at least I knew when to hold my breath. (Certain scents give me headaches and lets just say Stitch likes chili dogs - in case one of your crew is also sensitive.) It's an every-few-trips sort of attraction for me, alternating with Monster's Inc. Laugh Floor (might be better for the 4 year old), and just not going on either attraction at all. *edit to add* If you end up deciding it's not something for the youngest, then maybe the older two can ride with DH while you and the little one find something else to keep busy for 20 minutes.