I think non-Christians have a hard time understanding the "peace that passes understanding" concept. Right now I'm going through something difficult with my family -- I don't want to get into details, but it's an ugly extended family thing. Let's just say that a close family member has really, really done us wrong. I have no control over the situation whatsoever, but it's hurting me deeply, and it will continue to hurt me and my daughters emotionally and financially literally for the rest of our lives. I've been crying about it for days, and I've really been worked up about it. Today I went in and sat for a long time, just looking at the Christmas tree and praying for peace about it. After a while, I really did experience a peace about it. The situation wasn't made better in any way, but I literally felt a burden lifted from me and I came away more accepting of the whole thing. I don't see how in the world this thing can "work for good", but I trust that it will.