When I was growing up we always got our tree on Christmas Eve and Santa did all the decorating.
Once I was old enough my mom told me that having 6 kids money was tight and the trees were marked down to $1 on Christmas Eve instead of the $10 they normally cost. We went to bed and poor dad had to put on the lights and decorate while mom wrapped all the gifts.
We also only got 2 toys each, not like it is today. I can't imagine what kids would say now to only 2 gifts each. And relatives gave clothes, because Santa brought the toys and he decided we should get 2 each and that was enough.
I never felt shorted though, we played outside all summer and winter with all the nieghborhood kids. We went outside after breakfast and came home in time for dinner. Never had play dates! Our toys were a waste, it was more fun to play 4 square in the middle of the road (my dad painted a 4 squre in the road) or hide and seek.
Ah, the good old days. How do we get them back??
I too was poor and toys were not the important thing. The family gathering was.
We go over to our friends house now on christmas eve. No presents are exchanged, but it is a pleasant evening.