One thing my sister, the special ed teacher, did point out. When the school was origionally trying to not do the 504, they said they would work with him and help him as it was needed anyway. And I believe they would have. However, she said that I still needed to get the 504 in writing now because, as he gets older and will move to middle and high schools, then the ADHD will be considered an "old" diagnosis and he had gotten along fine without one in elementary school. Don't let them do that. Definitely take support along. I took my sister with me to the meetings. At that point the school didn't give me a hard time but it was nice to know I had someone who knew what they were talking about in my corner. She added that the 504 will even allow kids extra time on the SATs if needed.