I am allergic...or technically...super sensitive so much so that I exhibit physical reactions such as sneezing, itching, and uncomfortable breathing....to synthetic floral scents. It is worse with perfumes as they are quite concentrated. But I have similar issues to candles, air fresheners, detergents, etc with synthetic floral scents.
BUT....
In general. I do not consider it rude for people to wear perfume. Smelling like you bathed in it...is rude. Noone should be able to ID which Chanel you are wearing from 50 feet away.
Essential oils IMHO are different. They come from actual plants and pretty much, unless the person has an allergy to the plant, they shouldn't be allergic to the smell of the essential oil. There are guidelines to consider as certain oils have limitations. I am not an aromatherapist, so I don't know what they are.
But as an example...I am allergic to azaleas, magnolias and the like. No idea if they have an essential oil...but if they did, I would be allergic.
I am not allergic to lavender. I can use product that uses it's essential
oils which is nice since it relaxes you.
I can't have fake lavender...so all those candles and crap that are fake...sneezy and itchy. Same deal with perfumes.
For perfumes, I have to use the ones that are more musk-y or spice smelling. Those synthetic scents don't give me any trouble.
Rule of thumb...you should only notice it on you when you apply it. Just because you can't smell it anymore, doesn't mean it is still there.
I am in search of a feminine perfume with a masculine scent that smells lovely without a hint of flower. If anyone has a suggestion--I
open.
Someone I met was wearing a new Women's Ralph Lauren scent. I was inacy's earlier this week, but no sample was out so that I could smell it in concentrated form. And no sales associate around. It smelled nice on the person wearing it...nice enough for me to check it out. But from 5 feet away. I did not react to it..so it passed my first test.