Do you think this was inapproprate?

[MOMTOMOOTOO]

OP, this happened to me yearrrrs ago. My DS is now 24yo but I was the Classroom Mom with another Mom for his 2nd grade class. We put on the Halloween party. I went as a witch and the other mom came as a kitty...(ahh) she had on a skin-tight black leotard, a very long tail and little ears on her head. She kept meowing and purring....(ahh)!

Needless to say, I thought it was inapporpriate. I actually thought it was rather daring of her to show up like that BUT different strokes for different folks. Give me my WITCH costume anyday!!!

Admit it you were just jealous of her kittenish ways. All these years later and you still can't get over it.

 

[Honu]

I wouldn't have worn it, but I wouldn't be offended by it either. It's a heck of a lot more than some people at my office wore today.

 

[momrek06]

Admit it you were just jealous of her kittenish ways. All these years later and you still can't get over it.

Ahhhh......

 

[Disney-For-Life]

Dressing like a fairy ***** in front of a bunch of grade schoolers is not cute and harmless in my opinion. And it sounds like tinkerslut is the one with insecurity issues or else she wouldn't have to put herself on display and take the attention away from the kiddos who's parade it was.

I truely don't understand why women think they must display themselves for every Tom, Dick and Harry. The only guy who's seeing my goodies is DH. He brings home the 6 figures $$$, does the dishes,is scout master and holds my hand when I go to the dentist. He EARNS it, the rest of them can just piss off because I don't think my sexuality is the end all and be all of my worth as a human being. Even though most women seem to have swallowed that belief whole (I wonder who that benefits? not them )

"Tinkerslut" may very well have some insecurity issues. How about taking a friendly, productive approach and trying to become her friend, you know, since your all so concerned with her self esteem. On a different note, I'm glad to see you getting so impassioned about this topic and hope that you might consider my advice above. Its nice when women can help eachother, instead of banding together for insecure hatred.

 

[Disney Doll]

It was you wasn't it? *** are you? Have we met, that you know me so intimately and even know how I was feeling? HOly crap lady, back up.

Wow!!! Quite a reaction to a post that wasn't really offensive but more explanatory in its content. Sounds like Disney-For-Life may have hit a sore spot.

 

[MushyMushy]

Geez, totally not appropriate for the setting.

 

[MushyMushy]

Wow!!! Quite a reaction to a post that wasn't really offensive but more explanatory in its content. Sounds like Disney-For-Life may have hit a sore spot.

How was it not offensive for the other poster to tell the OP that she was jealous?

 

[declansdad]

I will need to see a picture before rendering a verdict.

 

[Blondy876]

tinkerslut

My new favorite Disney character.

 

[Buckalew11]

I don't think it was appropriate either, OP.

I remember how many moms dressed for Upward Basketball games at a church! It was shocking and someone who dresses like that for Halloween or not needs and craves attention. Sounds like she got it, too. Ick!

 

[diznygirl]

"Tinkerslut" may very well have some insecurity issues. How about taking a friendly, productive approach and trying to become her friend, you know, since your all so concerned with her self esteem. On a different note, I'm glad to see you getting so impassioned about this topic and hope that you might consider my advice above. Its nice when women can help eachother, instead of banding together for insecure hatred.

Yes, indeed - you should have taken her aside and whispered, "You may not realize this, but you are dressed like a slut. I know you must be craving attention, so here is the number of a good counselor. And here is another number, for a strip club that is hiring." And then invite her to lunch.

We women need to help each other out!!

 

[MushyMushy]

Yes, indeed - you should have taken her aside and whispered, "You may not realize this, but you are dressed like a slut. I know you must be craving attention, so here is the number of a good counselor. And here is another number, for a strip club that is hiring." And then invite her to lunch.

We women need to help each other out!!

 

[Serena]

Yes, indeed - you should have taken her aside and whispered, "You may not realize this, but you are dressed like a slut. I know you must be craving attention, so here is the number of a good counselor. And here is another number, for a strip club that is hiring." And then invite her to lunch.

We women need to help each other out!!

It is not being insecure when you know what is appropriate and what isn't, at a school function.

 

[disneyfan67]

AT the kids halloween parade today, one of the class moms dressed with her daughters. One about 7 and a toddler. All three were dressed as Tinkerbell. Let me say, that no other parent was dressed and to my knowledge marched in the parade and I am a class mom myself. Ok, so the woman who has a killer body had on nude shimmering tights, clear acryllic high heels, a green sleeveless lowcut tink bodysuit and some wings. It was hot here today so nothing over it. The best we can sum up is that she was a slutty Tink. She marched the entire parade and sprinkled pixie dust and most of it went on the dads I kid you not. So anyway, part of me says kudos to her for having the confidence, and the otherpart is saying WTH was she thinking. It would have been a great costume for an adult party. Any opinions? YOu had to see all the mens eyes. WOWSA!

For me to fully understand your situation, you need to post pictures of this Tinkerbell in question. It wouldn't be right for me to judge that woman unless I can see her total costume.

I'll be waiting.

 

[Tigger&Belle]

Yes, indeed - you should have taken her aside and whispered, "You may not realize this, but you are dressed like a slut. I know you must be craving attention, so here is the number of a good counselor. And here is another number, for a strip club that is hiring." And then invite her to lunch.

We women need to help each other out!!

I'll have to say, I wish that I had the body to dress that way and carry it off well and the balls (hmmm, balls probably isn't the word I'm looking for here ) to actually do it. But would I and do I think it's appropriate for a school setting? Heck no! I think I know who all the husbands will want to be inviting to the adult Halloween parties next year...

 

[disykat]

Oh yeah - that insecure hatred that makes us understand we're supposed to be fully clothed at an elementary school! I must be full of it because I follow the same dress code the kids do.

 

[Sherri]

AT the kids halloween parade today, one of the class moms dressed with her daughters. One about 7 and a toddler. All three were dressed as Tinkerbell. Let me say, that no other parent was dressed and to my knowledge marched in the parade and I am a class mom myself. Ok, so the woman who has a killer body had on nude shimmering tights, clear acryllic high heels, a green sleeveless lowcut tink bodysuit and some wings. It was hot here today so nothing over it. The best we can sum up is that she was a slutty Tink. She marched the entire parade and sprinkled pixie dust and most of it went on the dads I kid you not. So anyway, part of me says kudos to her for having the confidence, and the otherpart is saying WTH was she thinking. It would have been a great costume for an adult party. Any opinions? YOu had to see all the mens eyes. WOWSA!

I think it would have irked me a bit too.

 

[Feralpeg]

Without a picture, I can't really say how I'd feel about it. So, I'll trust the OP's opinion that it was over the top for a school function. However, I would never call someone I've never met a slut. Maybe she did go over the top on her costume, but does that require such nasty comments? Is it really necessary to be so judgemental? I doubt she damaged the psyche of any children. Maybe saying something to the school so they could talk to the mom before next year would be the helpful thing to do.

 

[DisneyfeverTN]

There is a time and a place for things. It sounds like she was dressed inappropriately for the event. It's like a woman wearing a thong at a Disney pool or someone using bad language. If you are at a place where there are a lot of children like Disney or a children's event, you should dress and speak appropriately. Some people are so desperate for attention they have no common sense.

 

[JunieJay]

Tacky and inappropriate.

We had a slutty mommy witch make the rounds here about an hour ago. DH and I both laughed when we shut the door because at the same time we both said in unison, "uhhh, was that a witch?" What gave it away was her witches hat, the rest was a hooker's outfit. She was a hooker/witch I guess.