NHdisneylover
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Feb 26, 2007
Well, I am in the camp of seeing nothing wrong with yous SIL's original response to the invite and further, I was impressed how graciously she handled your first rude questioning of her motives. I feel you alone stirred up all the drama and fuss with rude responses and not letting it go.
I also agree that it is odd to be so pushy about getting someone who is not relatd to your mom to go to her party.
I understand tht there is a lot of history driving your resentment and reponse to this one issue. However, your downright refusal to see outside perspectives and admit that perhaps you were wrong or perhaps it is okay for your sister I law
to not come to THiS event, causes me to question how much of that history is made of similar situations in which you are the instigator of drama
.
In short, I feel that you either need to learn how to control your actions and treat your SIL civilly and without using past issues as a basis for you making mountains out of innocent situations now, or you should accept that you will never be able to get along with her and make an effort to not be together except when required at family functions.. That would probably make things much easier for both of you.
I also agree that it is odd to be so pushy about getting someone who is not relatd to your mom to go to her party.
I understand tht there is a lot of history driving your resentment and reponse to this one issue. However, your downright refusal to see outside perspectives and admit that perhaps you were wrong or perhaps it is okay for your sister I law
to not come to THiS event, causes me to question how much of that history is made of similar situations in which you are the instigator of drama
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In short, I feel that you either need to learn how to control your actions and treat your SIL civilly and without using past issues as a basis for you making mountains out of innocent situations now, or you should accept that you will never be able to get along with her and make an effort to not be together except when required at family functions.. That would probably make things much easier for both of you.