Of those that disliked it, they vary in opinion.
My mother went because she was curious as to why we liked it so much. She's not a fan of themeparks so I had a bad feeling and it turned out that I was right. She disliked the noise and nonsense as she put it.
A friend didn't like it because he saw as a "monument to excess". He went because he likes to see everything but he does prefer such places as rainforests and mountains.
A couple we know went to take the kids. They enjoyed it well enough but basically were glad when it was over. I think that they saw it as something fun to do for the kids but really didn't see any need to go back and haven't.
My very own husband doesn't really like it. He dislikes rides and crowds and noise. His idea of fun is restaurants and hotels and thinks that it's unfortunate that some nice places are so poorly located.
That's just a few that really have no use for the parks and as you can see none were forced except maybe by themselves.

People differ in what they enjoy and that came as a shock to me when I was one of those completely smitten with WDW. Yes, I was that type at one time.
Just as I thought, that these guests didn't have the greatest time and that had nothing to do with Disney. Not liking noise and nonsense is valid, so you know that person isn't going to enjoy it. And having preferences for other vacation spots also is legitimate too - nothing Disney did wrong for any of these guests, as they just came with their own preconceived notions, expectations and preferences that didn't match up with Disney before they even stepped into the gates.
Tiger,I interpreted the article as saying they have slowed expansion(first couple of paragraphs)and the part about wringing out more as something quite a few of us on here have been talking about.By the way universal has been getting disney numbers since WWOHP opened.Might wanna check those numbers.I for one sure am glad you don't think they will price themselves out.If you crunch numbers at current rate increases it certainly contradicts this thought process.You know a few years ago some thought a company like GM could never go belly up,barring our tax payer bailout that is exactly what would have happened!Now as far as the fantasyland expansion sure I think that should be a good thing,I hope it doesn't flop for 500 million.This whole nex gen and 1 billion dollar price tag thing is kinda blurry at best,no real word on what exactly it is.So I still kinda classify that as a rumour or a wait and see thing.
I already mentioned Harry Potter in my response, so I already know about those numbers too. The question is, what will Universal do in response to the Fantasyland expansion?
And as an aside, I thought the car makers could go bankrupt, so I'm not one who didn't believe that could happen. I don't think that will happen with Disney though, as I think it's a different market, but again, none of us really know, do we?
I am a glass half full person, so I see things differently than you do. I would never assume that the Fantasyland expansion would flop. I don't think that way at all. I am very excited for the expansion and can't wait to see it once it is complete, as we've been seeing it in stages over the past year, and it's looking good!
You and I seem to look at WDW very differently, and that is ok. I don't believe it's going to go bankrupt, nor lose millions of guests and close. Are there problem areas? Sure, but over time, I am sure those problem areas, if deemed legitimate by Disney, will be corrected.
We like travelling to Disney, but we know that the only people you can change are ourselves, so we have made some personal changes, that work for us. We eat in our villa, instead of waste time, money and energy in the restaurants.
We don't expect much from Disney, and so far, barring a few hiccups along the way, they have been fixed. I have got a response to each and every email I've ever written to Disney, for both praise and concern. I've spoken to some very high up execs who have assisted me with some problem areas, and for this, I am grateful. We expect a safe, clean (have had a few issues with this, but they were corrected) and fun environment, and for the most part, we get that!
Am I sad that my favourite restaurants have changed? Sure, but I'm also sad that my skin isn't the same it was 20 years ago, or that my favourite bookstore closed up back home. Things change, and that is a fact of life. My response to those changes is very important in my future happiness, and so I'm not upset as those things are mostly beyond my control. I don't work for Disney, so I am not privy to inside info - I do make them known of my concerns, and that is all I can do. I have to believe that if there are major issues, that Disney will improve and correct them, but if they don't, then I make a decision as to whether I will continue to travel there. I am not at that point yet, and to be honest, it would take a lot for me to get there.
I would think that how you feel about Disney will colour your expectations and success on an actual trip, so I do hope that you are able to enjoy your next trip, and that you are able to find some of the lost magic that you seem so passionate about.
Tiger