Just reading more of this thread and am hoping that those who only send to the people who send to you...think twice about that, especially for certain people. I have lots and lots of aunts and uncles and friends of my parents who absolutely love to see the pictures of the kids (and they've known me since I was little) and get the Christmas greetings...but they don't send out because of financial reasons or whatever. I never *expect* a card...I send out because I want to wish them a Merry Christmas and share pictures of my kids they never see - I don't send because I want in return. If you want to share Christmas wishes, do it because you want to, not because you want something back. Just a thought...