Do You Know Couples That NEVER Argue?

[Saphire]

I read an article in 'Dear Abby' today about a couple that doesn't argue, and how others thought that was strange. I also know a couple that have been together for a few years, and have never had an arguement.

I remember reading an article about Mitt Romney, and he said he and his wife have never had an arguement, and they have been married over 30 years!

WC Field's once said- "Don't trust a man that doesn't drink". I kind of feel the same way about couples who don't argue, lol.

 

[Stacerita]

I read an article in 'Dear Abby' today about a couple that doesn't argue, and how others thought that was strange. I also know a couple that have been together for a few years, and have never had an arguement.

I remember reading an article about Mitt Romney, and he said he and his wife have never had an arguement, and they have been married over 30 years!

WC Field's once said- "Don't trust a man that doesn't drink". I kind of feel the same way about couples who don't argue, lol.

I read that this morning as well. DBF and I have been together for two years and we have never had an arguement. We had a bump in the road where I didn't think he was willing to follow what I have planned for my life, but no arguement. We worked it out without fighting at all. I know its strange, but it does happen. Do I think we will never have an arguement? No. There just hasn't been one yet.

 

[Sparx]

my boyfriend and i don't argue. occasionally we disagree on certain things but we don't argue over it.

he doesn't drink either.

 

[DMRick]

42 years married and we don't argue. We know each other well, and I think we just don't do things we think would bother the other person. Plus, my hubby is so kind and gentle and giving, I wouldn't have anything to argue about.
I mentioned earlier today, that I couldn't believe we had nothing sweet in the house. He went out to shovel and while he was outside, he made a quick trip to the store and brought me back tootsie rolls. Just put them on the counter, for me to find. What's to argue about?
PS Neither of us drink alcohol.

 

[chattyann]

My husband's Mother passed away 6 years ago, and my father in-law got remarried about 4 years ago. They never argue! My Dh and I have even asked them if they ever argue. They both say they never have had an argument. I think that's kind of crazy. DH definitely doesn't take after his dad. I would think something was wrong with our relationship if me and DH didn't argue sometimes.

 

[The Mystery Machine]

I read an article in 'Dear Abby' today about a couple that doesn't argue, and how others thought that was strange. I also know a couple that have been together for a few years, and have never had an arguement.

I remember reading an article about Mitt Romney, and he said he and his wife have never had an arguement, and they have been married over 30 years!

WC Field's once said- "Don't trust a man that doesn't drink". I kind of feel the same way about couples who don't argue, lol.

Maybe they don't have parents, siblings, or kids that drive you to fight and drink.

I am sure there are people out there that don't fight. We are not one of them.

My brother and SIL don't fight. They are "religious" and she "obeys the man". She also kicked her son (his stepson) out with the clothes on his back at 17 for being gay.

 

[DISUNC]

My neices InLaws. NEVER argued ever. They have been married over 35 years and still do everything together too. You never see one without the other.

 

[robinb]

We had a bump in the road where I didn't think he was willing to follow what I have planned for my life

I'm sorry, but this comment struck me as quite funny. There would be no arguments in a relationship as long as one person always followed what the other person had planned!

My husband and I have been together for over 20 years. Yes, we have had "disagreements" and yes, we have "argued". We are both too strong willed to allow one person to make the decisions all the time ... and sometimes we don't even agree on whose turn it is to make it .

ETA: No, I do not know a single couple in real life that does not argue at one time or another.

 

[Stacerita]

I'm sorry, but this comment struck me as quite funny. There would be no arguments in a relationship as long as one person always followed what the other person had planned!

I know. It is funny the way I put it. Without going into tons of details it came down to that. Was he gonna be part of the future with me? Or was he gonna be a wonderful memory in my past. I know there is a better way to put it. But yeah.

 

[chloelovesdisney]

I know one couple that never argues. That's because in the end my friend goes along with whatever her husband says. So no arguement from her, only me giving him the evil eye.

 

[*BTMRR*]

I've never seen my parents argue. They are wonderful parents and a wonderful affectionate, loving couple. They have been very happily married 40+ years. They disagree on certain things of course and I'm sure they've argued occasionally in private but they do a great job of give-and-take and agree-to-disagree and they live a very peaceful life. Neither lords it over the other. Somehow they make it all work without arguing!
So I know it's possible.

 

[segpm08060]

My ex SIL and my daughter never argued. Everyone thought they were the perfect couple. He was so easy going. Then one day my daughter discovered that he had been having extra marital affairs throughout their 12 year marriage. His non-argumentative manner and easy going style was just to cover up his narcissistic personality.

 

[NYDisGuy]

I'm sorry, but this comment struck me as quite funny. There would be no arguments in a relationship as long as one person always followed what the other person had planned!

My husband and I have been together for over 20 years. Yes, we have had "disagreements" and yes, we have "argued". We are both too strong willed to allow one person to make the decisions all the time ... and sometimes we don't even agree on whose turn it is to make it .

ETA: No, I do not know a single couple in real life that does not argue at one time or another.

I agree with this.

 

[Forevryoung]

For 16 years my parent's "didn't argue." I didn't see them argue for the first 16 years of my life (they were married approximately 18 years at that point).

And then came the day where Dad sat me down and said that they were having "problems" and were seeing a counselor to work things out. It was a complete surprise. Before that moment, I didn't have a clue that they were having issues. They never argued!

Now they argue regularly and say that they aren't arguing

My mom is extremely opinionated. It doesn't help the situation.

 

[rie'smom]

My husband and I usually have an argument once a month. No big deal-it's over in about 5 minutes.
Now that I've passed menopause, it takes the place of PMS.

 

[JR6ooo4]

We don't have blowouts. We can disagree without anger, somehow. maybe it is the miller.

Mikeeee

 

[DMRick]

but they do a great job of give-and-take and agree-to-disagree and they live a very peaceful life. Neither lords it over the other. Somehow they make it all work without arguing!
So I know it's possible.

There you go. That's how I feel about our life. There is so much give and take, we don't need to argue. We both know what would bug the other, so we try not to do stuff that we think would bother the other. We both retired in our early 50's (thanks to a great pension plan) and now share a small at home computer business. We travel together (just back from Disney!) go to church together (nope, I don'f blindly follow the man LOL), and just really enjoy each others company. Always have.

 

[themarquis]

We don't argue ... BUT (big "but" ) we fairly frequently have "discussions" in which we share a lot of intense feelings, cry, etc. . There is no yelling, harsh words, etc....

I think these just take the place of arguments -- same result as arguments -- we work the issues out.

But they are a lot nicer IMO and no anger and yelling!

 

[Liann]

Every couple we know argues. WAY more than we do. They even argue in public or in front of their children! (we haven't argued in public but we have in front of our kids a few times- our house is 1200 sq ft lol) But we aren't screamers hitters or stomp out and leave ppl. Our "arguments last all of 5 minutes and then 10 minutes of silence and one of us comes to tell the other what dork's we are being. Okay so most of the time it's me making peace but whatever lol. My hubby is headstrong but not oblivious to reason.

I'm just smarter than he is LMAO!

I know this one couple that always seems to be on edge. It's funny as poop. She is sly about it and acts like nothing is wrong but he pouts and gets pissy.

 

[Sleepy]

The only thing I can think of is a couple that does not argue either just saves it for the privacy of their home away from the ears of others or one of them shuts the other out completely when they need to have a discussion.