We didn't get it on the last trip-- we got YES tickets which precluded a MYW package. And I REALLY missed it. It felt as though we were hemorhagging money each time we ate. It got to where I would look at the prices before the entrees in a restaurant... NOT the way I want to spend my vacation! The DDP is absolutely worth it for my family in terms of making our vacation more like a vacation.
Then, just to add insult to injury, we spent more on food than we would have on the DDP. I did the math. For us, the DDP is a good deal.
I will add, though, that the sit down meal each day is important to me as a mom. It's not about the nutrition-- I would be happy letting them have ice cream for dinner at Disney World. (Hey, for us a vacation at WDW is a big deal. We can drop life's normal structure for 7 days.) But it's about the family time. Sitting down once a day in a restaurant forces us to just STOP. And talk as a family. And discuss our day. All without looking at our watches or worrying that the line at our next stop is getting longer by the minute. For me, that sit down meal is a priority in terms of family vacation planning.
But, again, that's me. You really need to do the math and determine whether it's a good deal for you.
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free dining: we're both teachers. We're never going to get to WDW during a time of year when it's offered. But we did get a GREAT break on our room, thanks to the summer special-- we saved just over $1000 off the price of the package we had already booked. Nope, not as much as we would have saved with free dining, but that was never on the table anyway. So consider paying full price for the DDP if you can save elsewhere.