We try too as much as we possibly can. Having us all around the table at the same time is important for me, and this includes lunch. However, since both my husband and I work, lunch is only once or twice a week where we are all together. For dinner, it is usually all of us, except for when my husband (a police officer) is on night work OR when my son is playing a sport and has practice.
Growing up, we always ate together as a family and I am trying to instill that in my kids, but unfortuantley , it doesn't always work out that way!
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