WOW! Ok first let me say I have only read about the first 10 pages and the last 1 or 2..lol (so please excuse me for repeating things possibly already said) I have been sitting here forever just reading away and while I normally stay away from the controversial topics I just really wanted to add my thoughts in on some of this stuff.
I am I guess you would say in the middle on this whole thing. I am a very respectful person all the time and would not go to Disney or anywhere else for that matter and do things I considered horrible, unethical or bothersome to other people. I am polite and considerate and we go to Disney to just enjoy ourselves and let our son have the time of his life. This is what it is all about for us.
The things that were mentioned here I have never done and probably would never even think to do but that is just me. I do not see a problem with sharing meals for whatever reason be it money or just to not waste the food. We would do it if need be in a heartbeat. We buy the food, we can share it however we please..lol No biggy here! however I would not go up to a toppings car and make myself a salad.

that is just not me.
Pool hopping, nope would not do it and wish other's did not do it as well.. just for one reason. If everyone starts doing this then there will be nothing but overcrowding in the deluxe pools and if i pay for a deluxe resort and then everyone from the value ones brings their famlies to where I am staying then i am not going to be a happy person. We as a family do not even use the pools much b/c we do not like swimming with 100 people. We do not want our little one to get hurt and we like to have some peace when swimming..

So we go out to the pool at night after a long day when there are little to no people in them. My question.. WHY would you pool hop?? b/c you want to swim in a nicer pool you like better right? Well, that pool is better b/c it is at the more expensive resorts. There are reasons for this rule and I can totally understand them.
Sneaking people into rooms, no I would not do this either b/c I would be too scared of getting in trouble for it
other things..well to each their own. It will not hurt me for somebody to reuse a cup or swap their strollers or whatever so I have no opinions on these.
Here is what bothers me though. People who think if you have to share a meal or not buy many things while on vacation or can not just do anything they want to indulge while on vacation they should just not go! Where is your logic in this? What a terrible thing to say. We have worked so hard to have the things we do. We are almost debt free other than our house payment. We pay all our bills, have paid off our cars, have no credit card debt, etc.. It has been hard to do all these things and then allow me to stay home with our son too. Yet we have done them all and still put money away for our Disney trip last year and this year. We realized after our trip last year just how special it was to our family and how much we wanted to try and continue going or if we can not swing Disney then at least going to the beach or something like that. These family trips mean a lot to us and will mean even more to our kids as they grow up. Luckily we have been able to go when they were offering the free dining which helped us a ton. We choose to stay at a moderate resort for the less crowded feel and b/c we like the rooms better. Not b/c we think we are better than anyone else or anything like that..it is just "our taste"..lol
Anyways, I start typing and loose track of what I am trying to say..

We know what we want to spend on the trip each time. We put that money aside. This is the reason we have paid off our cars and such and do not owe on credit cards. We limit ourselves to what we know we SHOULD or SHOULD NOT spend. If we had not got the free dining you best believe we would share meals at Disney and also keep plenty in our room to eat on. We just can not justify spending so much on food. Do we love to have nice meals?? Heck yes we do but eating everywhere we wanted to eat 2 or 3 times a day would end up making a trip we could afford into one we could not. It adds up fast and we know this. So we would just do the best we could budget wise on food. I would hate to think people look down on us for this or think that if we have to do that we should have just stayed at home. That is so sad! We do not have to spend tons of money on meals to deserve a vacation. We limit other things too such as things we buy out there.. We know what we want and put aside enough for those things. We will get a photo album, some mickey ears, a build a cup in DTD, and maybe a pin or 2. Other than that we do not go out there buying tons of things. Again this helps keep the trip affordable and is not doing anything wrong.
It just makes me so sad to see so many people think we that #1 either they are better than others or #2 that people who can not afford to spend tons on meals and things should stay home. It is all in how smartly you spend your money. Are you saying that it is better for somebody to go on a trip and spend thousands of dollars just to stay at only the best places, eat only the best food and buy anything that they want and just put it on a credit card or not pay their bills just to be able to do this???

Yet a family who pays all their bills, does not put anything on a credit card and comes to Disney but does not spend tons of extra money on the trip is wrong and should stay home just so others do not see them share a meal or something?
Again, like I said I am in the middle on this. Most things I do not agree with and would not do myself b/c I consider myself respectful and ethical. However for those that would make you feel like you should stay home b/c you can't afford top of the line and to never share a meal you should be ashamed. People work hard to have enough money to take their family for a nice trip and should not be made to feel bad for sharing food. (again as long as this is done in the right way..not stealing any food from toppins bars and such)
That reminds me of a thread I read a while back where somebody said if you have to ask how much something is you can't afford it. That was just so mean and it makes people feel like crap for asking this kind of stuff. Why would you want to make people who are doing the best they can feel badly like that? Made me scared to ask my question yesterday about whether spending money on the
mnsshp was worth it. I was so worried people would jump on me and say that if I had to ask I should not spend the money. It is just flat out being rude and not taking the time to really consider how other's feel or how others do things. We are just trying to have a nice trip and not overspend to do so. We have a new baby on the way and certainly do not want to go to Disney and overspend. Yet we do want to stay some place we enjoy being a mod over a value and take enough to buy the things we like.
Ok, sorry all that just to say, please do not judge other's for harmless things like sharing their burgers or something or say that they should just stay home if they have to do that. Just be considerate to them.

This is the DIS right? I come here happy to talk about Disney since that makes us happy..lol So don't bring people down please! (sorry to repeating myself 100 times.just typing as I think..

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Ok, flame away if need be but you won't be changing my thoughts at all.
