Do I need a help??/

[sandrabell]

Thank you! Will comein handy!
What is KWIM?

 

[Pam]

Thank you! Will comein handy!
What is KWIM?

KWIM = Know What I Mean

Tracy- sorry, but I have to agree with JunieJay on this one. You are stepping over your boundary by making judgment on this other woman.

Are you monitoring their EVERY move? How do you know exactly how much time they spend with each other and what their family interaction is?

 

[sandrabell]

Thank you Pam....

 

[Chilehead Too]

There is no need to get hostile. I care because those kids are paying the price.They are run down and sick all the time. They have no family time to speak of .She even takes then to day care on her days off! If the job was needed, thats one thing. Her DH has a good job. For more than $100 she could work part time and still raise her kids herself. I work and I raise my child. DO you work and raise kids? Do you see your kids for less then 1 hour a day? It's sad. You can't deny that.

You seem to know an awful lot about the situation. But it has been my experience that unless you are living under the roof of your "friend" you really do not know what is going on. There could be many extenuating circumstances as to why she works the hours she does. Face it, you are not privy to all the facts. Also, you make such harsh judements on someone you call a "friend". I really think parenting is a very unique, individual journey and I would hesitate to judge anyone on their skills.

 

[Bob Slydell]

There is no need to get hostile. I care because those kids are paying the price.They are run down and sick all the time. They have no family time to speak of .She even takes then to day care on her days off! If the job was needed, thats one thing. Her DH has a good job. For more than $100 she could work part time and still raise her kids herself. I work and I raise my child. DO you work and raise kids? Do you see your kids for less then 1 hour a day? It's sad. You can't deny that.

Hostile? Telling you it's none of your business is being hostile?

People really need to stop analyzing everyone else's family and use that time to focus on their own families.

 

[The Mystery Machine]

Yes, you need help. Obsession is not healthy.

 

[sandrabell]

People really need to stop analyzing everyone else's family and use that time to focus on their own families.
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You know what Bob? I think this was the best line from this whole thread today! You nailed it on the head! I am going to focus on that one quote from you!

 

[Tracy Savage]

OK if the parents aren't concerned for the childs welfare than why should I be. Is that the additude? What ever, I'm done here. I have a child getting off the bus soon. He comes first.