DME isn't quicker than someone picking you up unless you get very lucky and hit everything perfectly with DME...no stops at the counter, right onto the bus that is just about to leave the airport.
If you have someone pick you up, and you have checked bags to claim, it will take you less than an hour to get from your gate to your resort. Without checked bags to claim it has taken me about 45 mins.
But, it all depends on whether or not you want to take the time to drive to MCO, find them, and then drive back...all to save about 20-25 mins. Now, if you're talking about your return to the airport, then sure, drive. It allows you an addtl hour to hang out.