Hi! I'm a total newbie to this board but not to DLR. We are going next week (just planned it today

) and I am looking for as many tips as I can get.
Our group:
Me (30)
DH (31)
DS (8)
DS (6)
DS (4)
DD (20 months)
My mom "grandma"
We are staying at Desert Inn and Suites (across the street, yeah!) for three nights and we will be at DLR for 2 days.
I know about ridemax and I've read HydroGuy's rules (great stuff!!

) but I would love any other tips or links to tips that you can give me.
How exactly does the stroller pass work?
Where is the best (least crowded) place to be for the parade?
Ditto for the fireworks?
Is the Halloween treat worth it, and what does it include?
What are your best tips for travelling with young kids?
I've never been to CA Adventure, what are the best things to do there?
I'm sure most of these questions have been answered many times on this board, so maybe you could just point me in the right direction...

Thanks so much!
Wow, big difference in ages. Here's some answers to the questions.
I'm not sure about the stroller pass, considering I'm about 12 years past that stage and my brother is 9 years past that.
The best place for viewing the parade is the hub. No question. Right out side of the Plaza Inn is good, but seats get taken quickly. However, on the Thursday, you should be able to find good seats somewhere on Main Street up to 30 minutes before parade time (7:00PM parade). You can also try on Friday when there are 2 parades (3:30 and 6:30).
Ditto for the fireworks. The hub. Right in front of the castle. You will want to get there 45-60 minutes before because Friday night will get a tad crowded.
Personally, if I only had 2 days, I wouldn't do Mickey's Halloween Treat. It's some trick-or-treating at DCA and most of the rides are open, but it's nothing great. Not worth the extra time or money unless your kids are totally into the Halloween thing.
For young kids, get there early, hit low capacity attractions early. Hit Fantasyland on Friday morning because you won't have early entry which is Thursday. That means there will already be people in line for Fantasyland rides when you enter on Th. Take in the high capacity rides in the afternoon and take it easier in the afternoon. If the kids are too tired to last the whole day (especially Friday w/ fireworks) take a break in the middle of the day. Your hotel is very close and very accessible for a midday break.
Rides for the morning: Th-Try Nemo, Autopia, older one might want to try Space or Star Tours. F- Peter Pan, Dumbo, Alice, (Mr. Toad, Pinocchio, and Snow White are all a bit frightening) older might want to try Matterhorn.
Rides for the afternoon: Jungle Cruise, Pirate's Lair, Pirates, Haunted Mansion Holiday, Tiki Room.
At DCA, there's plenty of stuff to do for kids. Your 8 and 6 year old will probably like Soarin (maybe 4 year old if he's tall enough). Grizzly River Run is fun if it's not freezing outside. Monster's Inc. is a very fun dark ride. Don't miss Turtle Talk w/Crush in the Animation Building (actually don't miss the Animation Building) where the kids can actually talk and be responded to by Crush the turtle from Finding Nemo.
MuppetVision 3-D and It's Tough to be a Bug are fun 3D movies, but Bug can be a little frightening. Flik's Fun Fair is a great area for the younger ones, with 4 kiddy rides themed after A Bug's Life movie. Redwood Creek Challenge Trail is a huge play area where the kids can blow off steam. There are caves, slides, lookout towers, small rock walls, and tons of stuff to do. On Paradise Pier, there's a carousel and a few carnival style rides that are family friendly. The kids also might like the Boudin Bakery or the Mission Tortilla Factory where they can see the food being made right there.
To eat I love the BB, but I also like Naples and the Jazz Kitchen in DTD. Try those. For counter service, I really like Rancho del Zocalo in Frontierland and Redd Rocket's Pizza Port in Tomorrowland.