Divorce

[Rockbro]

I've tried my best to keep my posts balanced, but I need this.

My wife left me and took my dogs and put them both down without me being able to sy goodbye. She blocked me yesterday and won't answer my calls or texts or emails. I honestly think she needs help, but I think I have to make the difficult decision to file for divorce.

She was a beautiful girl. When I met her, she was sweet and loved me. She just changed, somehow. I'm devastated, but I feel worse for her. She's been cheating. She sent me a picture of the guy today. I married a damaged girl and thought I could fix her.

I'm not sure if I will ever find a good woman, but, this kind of thing should never happen to anyone. Further, I feel worse for her than me.

EDIT: To make up for this, I'm adopting my 9th rescue dog. I've done this for years and lost all of them. This one is a seven year old who was apparently kicked in the face as a puppy. He had to be reconstructed and was adopted twice and given up.

 

[Dan Murphy]

Wishing you well.

 

[Rockbro]

Wishing you well.

I'll be OK. I've been blessed with a combination of anger, kindness and most importantly, stubbornness. Life won't beat beat me. Thank you.

 

[Rockbro]

I'll be OK. I've been blessed with a combination of anger, kindness and most importantly, stubbornness. Life won't beat beat me. Thank you.

And I've also had the opportunity to guide other people. That's the greatest gift in life.

 

[kirstenb1]

So sorry. But I think it's wonderful of you to give this dog a much needed chance at a new life!!

 

[ramee]

I haven’t been “following” all your posts, but what happened to the other dog that it needed to be put down? The one had cancer.

 

[Rockbro]

I haven’t been “following” all your posts, but what happened to the other dog that it needed to be put down? The one had cancer.

Both had it. one week then another. Brooklyn had it in her leg. Rocky had it it in his back. Rocky's was found very shortly after Brooke's. Rock's is very recent.

 

[Rockbro]

Both had it. one week then another. Brooklyn had it in her leg. Rocky had it it in his back. Rocky's was found very shortly after Brooke's. Rock's is very recent.

If you really want to push it, I'll post pictures of both.

 

[Rockbro]

I haven’t been “following” all your posts, but what happened to the other dog that it needed to be put down? The one had cancer.

When someone is in pain, why would you question? I posted to try to get some of it out.

 

[Rockbro]

Both had it. one week then another. Brooklyn had it in her leg. Rocky had it it in his back. Rocky's was found very shortly after Brooke's. Rock's is very recent.

My response was brash.

Brooklyn had cancer in her left leg. She went though surgery, but it was determined that she only had a month left, after the surgery.

Rocky had it in his back and neck.

I don't know if this is the right thing, but there is a dog named "Ben" that, according to the rescue group, was kicked in the face as a puppy and had to be reconstructed. He was adopted twice and given up twice. I think this might be the best thing I ever do in my life. I can give this 7 year old guy a good life.

 

[FigmentSpark]

So sorry that these things are happening for you right now. It does sound like Ben needs you, and maybe, just a little, you might need Ben, too. I hope this new beginning is long and happy for you.

 

[ramee]

When someone is in pain, why would you question? I posted to try to get some of it out.

was simply curious. I only remember reading about the one. Good luck with everything.

 

[Rockbro]

I haven’t been “following” all your posts, but what happened to the other dog that it needed to be put down? The one had cancer.

I don'y know you, but I have a life lesson for you. Sometimes, people just need to talk after loss. Questioning is not appropriate.

 

[ramee]

I don'y know you, but I have a life lesson for you. Sometimes, people just need to talk after loss. Questioning is not appropriate.

I’m not sure putting your life on a message board is appropriate if you only want certain responses. I think people have suggested before that you seek help in real life. I knew better than to engage. Good luck.

 

[macraven]

If you were posting in the cope/compassion board, you will find it is all neutral there.

When peeps post in the community board, it’s not
as gentle here.

 

[ramee]

Lol i just posted a question. He got defensive. I feel like he was waiting for someone to say something “wrong”. Anywho...

 

[Rockbro]

If you were posting in the cope/compassion board, you will find it is all neutral there.

When peeps post in the community board, it’s not
as gentle here.

Ok. I posted in the wrong place. Will you xfer?

 

[macraven]

Ok. I posted in the wrong place. Will you xfer?

Sent you a pm on how your thread can be moved

 

[TLSnell1981]

I've tried my best to keep my posts balanced, but I need this.

My wife left me and took my dogs and put them both down without me being able to sy goodbye. She blocked me yesterday and won't answer my calls or texts or emails. I honestly think she needs help, but I think I have to make the difficult decision to file for divorce.

She was a beautiful girl. When I met her, she was sweet and loved me. She just changed, somehow. I'm devastated, but I feel worse for her. She's been cheating. She sent me a picture of the guy today. I married a damaged girl and thought I could fix her.

I'm not sure if I will ever find a good woman, but, this kind of thing should never happen to anyone. Further, I feel worse for her than me.

EDIT: To make up for this, I'm adopting my 9th rescue dog. I've done this for years and lost all of them. This one is a seven year old who was apparently kicked in the face as a puppy. He had to be reconstructed and was adopted twice and given up.

You think you have to make the difficult decision to file for divorce?? Run!!! JMHO

 

[disneychrista]

When someone is in pain, why would you question? I posted to try to get some of it out.

I think they were questioning why your wife put down a healthy dog. Your post doesn't mention either dog being ill. I thought maybe she was just a spitefull witch and took it out on the dog.