I am doing the opposite! I am a WDW vet who is planning my family's first trip to DL.QUOTE]
Me too! We're Disney Vacation Club members, and our home resort is saratoga springs. We've had the luxury of living in FL for 18 months, and we'd go monthly.
To me, planning our upcoming DL vacation was *sigh* boring. For WDW, you plan, plan, plan. We've been in the Magic Kingdom and had people complain they had no place to eat because everything was full. To me, that's a shame because a little planning could have solved that. And yes, it really is that busy.
What I like about WDW is that there is SO much to do. We've done 2 11-day vacations there, and usually about day 10, you're getting that last ride in you haven't yet. What I like, is that when a ride has a 3 hour wait time, you can say "I'm here for 11 days, I can catch that later". I can't imagine waiting that long for a ride anymore.
I have high expectations for our trip next month. Quite a few friends of ours have said we'll be disappointed because DL is so small. I hope they're wrong.
We've stayed onsite at WDW and offsite, and I can honestly say I'd never stay offsite again. It's just not worth it. I would spring for the largest room you can--- it's nice to be able to spread out and maybe even have kitchen facilities. We've adopted the following touring plan -- open the park in the morning, eat lunch somewhere, go back to swim and cool off. Back to the park/another hotel for dinner, then to a park until 7-8ish. My kids are small though -- 6 and 10, so we don't close the parks. Helps limit tantrums and the grumpys!
So far, we've stayed at All Star Music, All Star Movies and All Star Sports, Port Orleans French Quarter, Port Orleans Riverside, Coronado Springs, Saratoga Springs, the Beach Club, The Boardwalk Villas, and Old Key West. If you're considering any of those, I'd be glad to let you know how our stay was.
Feel free to PM me if you have any questions-- I LOVE TO TALK DISNEY!

I think most of us do. Or you could post over on the WDW forums on the disboards.
Shawn in AK