No, we don't necessarily have bitter women on this thread, rather women who can read what others post. If you place yourself on a singles thread (and it's obvious that people on here are looking for others to date) and then choose to pm them, please be aware that most people will look into your past posts to help them figure out the type of person that they're considering talking to. This is really the only way of checking out another person since this isn't a dating site. Many of us have been burned, even from this site, so we can't help but be as cautious as possible.