I completely understand. Our trip in October 2013 went like this with one character, and it still bugs me incessantly. We had dinner at CRT, and after most of the princesses made their rounds, a CM came over and asked if we met all of them. I ran through the list, gave him a disappointed look and said, "No, we're missing Jasmine."
Well about ten minutes later Jasmine showed up with the nastiest attitude you could imagine. Looked over at my SO on the table, arched an eyebrow between him and my birthday celebration button and said something to the effect of, "Oh, you're celebrating." Very snotty, snobbish and rude, far more than any princess should be, whether 'in character' or not. She took a picture with me but honestly I felt like crying after she left. It hurt twice over when, a few minutes later, she came to the table next to us with two little girls, and was sweet as a Georgia peach. Talk about getting the short end of the stick.