Disney is first and foremost about kids...

[rebeccaariel]

I just said I didn't understand an adult wanting to stand in line to meet characters and get autographs but I meant that in the general sense.

Because its fun. That's it. Some people may have deeper, personal reasons, as one PP pointed out, some might not, but in the end it's because it's enjoyable. Not fun for you? Fine. You have fun in your way, and I'll have it in mine. There's really no need for judgement.

 

[ThreeBeans]

I'm pretty sure that taking a photograph is not being "physically aggressive" You were not in any sort of imminent danger.

The man was disruptive and ruined your enjoyment of the ride.
Your husband "chewed this guy into a pulp" until the guy's wife looked like she wanted to dive off of the boat. Pretty sure that ruined HER enjoyment of the ride.


As far as I can tell, two men both ruined the ride experience for two women, and probably for anyone else who was in the boat at the time.

Perhaps you didn't read what I wrote before you decided to try to start an argument. As I clearly stated before, when i repeated my polite and reasonable request, the man deliberately shoved his camera in my face and shot off the flash. That is physically agressive behavior. My husband turned around said, "Did you just do that to my wife? How old are you? Is that the way you were raised to treat people? You should be ashamed of yourself." (or something to the effect, it was two years ago, I don't remember the exact verbiage.)

Perfectly reasonable response, really.

 

[ThreeBeans]

Sometimes you have to stand up for yourself or for someone else. Bullies depend on people not standing up for themselves. When the guy with the camera shot it in her face, he was being deliberately aggressive and was being a bully.

Sometimes you gotta stand for something.

Thank you

DH and I are some of the most...easy going people on the planet. LOL. We absolutely love Disney. Have never had a problem there other than that. (And, well, the one time I accidentally ate something I was allergic to and broke out in hives in Animal Kingdom and got to visit the medics, but that was my own fault )

In any case, I don't like fights or arguments. Peace, y'all.

 

[ThreeBeans]

Unless the ride prohibits photography, I'm not sure what the cameraman was doing wrong. It might be annoying to have somebody take pictures around you, but unless you've reserved WDW for a private event, that's not an unexpected thing to have happen. This circles back to the original OP's point - enjoy your vacation. If you want to judge others and insist they conduct their lives just as you would, go to law school and become a judge. My family likely doing things different than you. Maybe because of tradition, maybe because of need, or maybe because of something that's none of your business. I don't take a lot of pictures. However, if my family was at WDW through the Make A Wish program, you can bet I'd be burning through a lot of memory cards. We are the sum of our experiences, and all of our experiences are different. Quit judging, quit worrying about why others aren't following your path, and have a great time. Or be miserable, I don't care.

The ride does prohibit photography. It was PoTC and they specifically advise you no flash photography.

 

[Patience]

Because its fun. That's it. Some people may have deeper, personal reasons, as one PP pointed out, some might not, but in the end it's because it's enjoyable. Not fun for you? Fine. You have fun in your way, and I'll have it in mine. There's really no need for judgement.

No judgment, I just don't get it, kind of like I don't get people who like to skydive. It's not for me. I know many disagree and that's fine. Variety is the spice of life, right? I don't care if an adult stands in line to get an autograph. My child waits patiently in lines like everyone else and I don't look at anyone like they're nuts. Do what you want. It still doesn't mean that I get it.

 

[ThreeBeans]

I personally do not understand people who like exploring those little bitty caverns where there's barely enough room if you get down on your belly and slither about like a snake. As long as they don't try to take me with them (in which case I will make like a cat being threatened with a bath), they can continue to do it, though.

 

[disfan4life1]

My hubby and I are considering a weekend trip in September minus the kids. I'm excited about it and can't wait. Kids(older teens) are not too happy about it but will get over it as we would have already taken 3 trips there with them this year( 10hrs drive w/AP's). Our whole family are huge disney fans so I almost feel bad. And yes the two of us will meet up with characters, have a few adult beverages, and probably even hold hands and share a smooch or two. Gonna be the best weekend we've ever had together.

 

[donaldlovesdaisy]

Ok, so I totally understand why adults go to Disney without kids. I love Disney. I have been and will go again without kids. Go for it.

That being said, why are so many adults so judgemental about the adults that do bring their kids? I see it on here all of the time. That we don't "control" our kids well enough. That we don't "teach them to behave in public". That we yell too much. That we don't yell enough. Leave the strollers at home. Ugh. It's disgusting.

My kids know how to behave in public. They know right from wrong. We talk about it all of the time. But Disney isn't like any other place. It's constant stimulation, a break from their normal routine...they are totally out of their element. We are doing our very best. They're kids...not mini adults and they are still learning.

Give us a break, and we won't make fun of you for standing in line to see the characters. (Honestly, why does anyone care if adults stand in line to see characters. It's their vacation...some people like football, some people like fancy restaurants, some people like Disney.) I know it's just the internet and we don't know each other, but really.

I don't care what age you are being in WDW does not give anyone an excuse to behave poorly and by that I mean serious out of control behavior like running around screaming in any restaurant or having major uncontrollable tantrums. Making constant excuses for our snowflakes is why we are dealing with the serious issues in society that we are now seeing . We started failing as a nation when we decided that everyone should get a trophy.

 

[ryalluvdiz]

I don't care what age you are being in WDW does not give anyone an excuse to behave poorly and by that I mean serious out of control behavior like running around screaming in any restaurant or having major uncontrollable tantrums. Making constant excuses for our snowflakes is why we are dealing with the serious issues in society that we are now seeing . We started failing as a nation when we decided that everyone should get a trophy.

Couldnt agree more....im a teacher and its getting worse and worse!!!

 

[xbonnie38]

That's what I'm doing with my granddaughter. Her teacher told her that the princesses weren't real and I wasn't real happy. I mean, she "knows" they aren't but we were still having fun with it.

Her teacher in adult world sounds like a real Buzz kill! ....that would have made me very angry also who is she to tell a child things like that , did she tell them also that Santa is not real to ....I mean wow!.....oh and yes Princesses do exist did she forget about Princess Diana ....I would have thrown that in her face , grant it her was by far a fairytale life or ending but she was a princess!

 

[stargazertechie]

I don't care what age you are being in WDW does not give anyone an excuse to behave poorly and by that I mean serious out of control behavior like running around screaming in any restaurant or having major uncontrollable tantrums.

I cut parents some slack in Disney for two reasons when it comes to the tantrums.

1) There is a high percentage of guests who are traveling with children who are on the spectrum, and those uncontrollable tantrums may actually be... beyond the parent's control.

2) The "We paid $X,000 for this vacation, and by golly we're going to get our money's worth out of every second of it" crazed parents who drag their kids ragged, refuse to stop for an afternoon nap, and then expect their preschool aged child to sit quietly through a dinner at 8PM after going non stop for 13 hours.

 

[ryalluvdiz]

Her teacher in adult world sounds like a real Buzz kill! ....that would have made me very angry also who is she to tell a child things like that , did she tell them also that Santa is not real to ....I mean wow!.....oh and yes Princesses do exist did she forget about Princess Diana ....I would have thrown that in her face , grant it her was by far a fairytale life or ending but she was a princess!

I still defend santa to my fourth graders... Some smile like ive made their day and some ... Well.... I get the eye roll.

 

[Granny square]

I don't care what age you are being in WDW does not give anyone an excuse to behave poorly and by that I mean serious out of control behavior like running around screaming in any restaurant or having major uncontrollable tantrums. Making constant excuses for our snowflakes is why we are dealing with the serious issues in society that we are now seeing . We started failing as a nation when we decided that everyone should get a trophy.

The initial stressed reaction I understand. It is the parent's response or lack thereof that is either considerate of others or not. IMO

And the parent's response is where kids learn.

 

[donaldlovesdaisy]

I don't care what age you are being in WDW does not give anyone an excuse to behave poorly and by that I mean serious out of control behavior like running around screaming in any restaurant or having major uncontrollable tantrums.

I cut parents some slack in Disney for two reasons when it comes to the tantrums.

1) There is a high percentage of guests who are traveling with children who are on the spectrum, and those uncontrollable tantrums may actually be... beyond the parent's control. 2) The "We paid $X,000 for this vacation, and by golly we're going to get our money's worth out of every second of it" crazed parents who drag their kids ragged, refuse to stop for an afternoon nap, and then expect their preschool aged child to sit quietly through a dinner at 8PM after going non stop for 13 hours.

1.That is no reason not to remove the child from the situation if it is in a restaurant and it is lasting for more than a few minutes.

2.Parents like that do not need to be cut any slack since they are responsible for their childs behavior. I mean really how can anybody even think that is reasonable or responsible behavior on the adults part. I really feel sorry for the kids of parents like that come on stop being so selfish and give you kid a the nap or break they so desperately they need.

 

[GreenCntryGirl]

To me that'd make you a good parent: someone who knows her childs limits and needs and acts upon them. Plus you take care and consider the other guests. Great!

I have no kids, no desire to have kids either, but I like the trust of those little ones who happily go hello'ing everyone. She'd get a hello from me

I enjoy kids who say "hello" to everyone, too. Boo was like that when she was little.

 

[GreenCntryGirl]

Her teacher in adult world sounds like a real Buzz kill! ....that would have made me very angry also who is she to tell a child things like that , did she tell them also that Santa is not real to ....I mean wow!.....oh and yes Princesses do exist did she forget about Princess Diana ....I would have thrown that in her face , grant it her was by far a fairytale life or ending but she was a princess!

I considered saying something but then decided just focus on Boo and redirect her to meeting Merida and Jasmine. It's going to be amazing.

 

[SarahC73]

This might be my favourite quote on the Disboards ever

I agree with this statement as well and even used it today (& will probably use it many more times!!) I told my aunt that I'm having a Minnie Mouse birthday cake for my 40th & she said "how old are you" so I used the above & she just raised her eyebrows! I know I'll get a few comments about my cake at my party, but my love is Disney & a lot of people my age group have a very tough time understanding but I'm past caring what anyone else thinks, even when I'm standing in line for my Mickey & Minnie picture this year!! :0)

 

[SarahC73]

I agree with this statement as well and even used it today (& will probably use it many more times!!) I told my aunt that I'm having a Minnie Mouse birthday cake for my 40th & she said "how old are you" so I used the above & she just raised her eyebrows! I know I'll get a few comments about my cake at my party, but my love is Disney & a lot of people my age group have a very tough time understanding but I'm past caring what anyone else thinks, even when I'm standing in line for my Mickey & Minnie picture this year!! :0)

This post missed out the original post of "your only too old for Mickey Mouse when your dead" (sorry doing this from my phone!!)

 

[imaprincez]

When people say that, they just don't get "it". I think people spend way too much time being adults that they forget how to play and have a genuinely good time. Even though I don't have kids, I love the joy of seeing other children's dreams come true.