Disney is first and foremost about kids...

[Jacquie668]

Count me into the group who hates when people talk about how it's all about/for the kids. Especially when it is as an excuse (not apology) for their children's misbehavior.

That is a good point! I've seen people do that "Well this place is for kids, so kids will be kids!"

I overheard that routine once at a Chuck e Cheese when this woman's child was standing on the skee ball game throwing the ball into the top slot...apparently the other parents were rude for having an issue with that as this is a "kids place."

 

[CaliBear]

I actually bristled a bit when I saw the title of this thread. I agree with you OP.

 

[ryalluvdiz]

I sometimes wish kids weren't allowed so I had an excuse not to bring mine with me .

Love it! Me too sometimes!!!

 

[Gumbo4x4]

I think it would be neat if they had "adults only" days -- you know, like the swimming pools...

Shoot, just a "no strollers allowed" day would be awesome

 

[lynypixie]

I think Disney is for everyone (who has the cash), but I hate when people acutaly complain about kids. Adults can go pretty much anywhere in the world to travel. Kids don't have as much options. It is THE place where they are welcomed with open arms.

So when I read complains about kids in Disney, yes, I tell the people to go somewhere else if they don't want to be around kids.

And yes, I went to Disney without kids.

 

[North of Mouse]

My dh is a *cut-up* and he loves to say to me in a semi loud voice on a monorail with a couple families with kids - "Honey, what are all these children doing at Disney world anyway"? Of course, they hear his tone of voice and laugh It always starts a conversation.

We do have people ask us (when they know we are going to Disney) Oh, are you taking your grandchildren? Well no, we're not, we enjoy going for ourselves. Their reply, "Oh", like it's terrible for us to go alone and what would we possibly do?? Anyway, the g'kids go at different times of the year with their parents.

 

[ttintagel]

So when I read complains about kids in Disney, yes, I tell the people to go somewhere else if they don't want to be around kids.

Are they complaining about the mere PRESENCE of kids, or about specific things that specific kids did while they were there?

I absolutely love kids. I used to work with them, and often miss it. I just dislike parents who don't do their kids the favor of teaching them how to act in public. Luckily, they're the minority.

 

[lynypixie]

Are they complaining about the mere PRESENCE of kids, or about specific things that specific kids did while they were there?

I absolutely love kids. I used to work with them, and often miss it. I just dislike parents who don't do their kids the favor of teaching them how to act in public. Luckily, they're the minority.

I have read reviews on trip advisor about there being too many kids in a value hotel at Disney. I mean, what did they expect.

 

[katt789]

Definitely saw the title and was all "uhhhhhooooohhh but it all worked out!!

Disney is definitely for the kid in everyone, Walt himself has been quoted saying that "whether you're 6 or 60" you'll love it, and that "if you market only towards kids, you're dead" Disney is for everyone, it sucks that not everyone recognizes that!

 

[Mickey_for_President]

I sometimes wish kids weren't allowed so I had an excuse not to bring mine with me .

We don't bring ours if we don't want to! It is fun!

 

[DisneyFive]

Weird, I've never heard anyone say anything remotely close to "Disney is first and foremost about kids"... Seriously.

I do hear alot about it being a great family destination, but that's about it.

Honestly, this seems like much ado about nothing.

Dan

 

[Disney93]

We have made several trips without kids unless you call the 4 seventy year olds we took with us one time. I swear they had more fun than anyone.

 

[Casemily]

I have read reviews on trip advisor about there being too many kids in a value hotel at Disney. I mean, what did they expect.

Ha! This! I was on a spring break carnival cruise. I too was bothered how parents on the cruise let their kids run free ( as in woke my sleeping 2 year old running and yelling down the hall). But it's spring break, I expected lots of kids. Heard several different people complaining about "all the kids on the ship", including a couple talking very loudly at a crew member about how their cruise should be refunded b/c all the kids on the ship ruined their cruise experience.

 

[MelissathePooh]

Ha! This! I was on a spring break carnival cruise. I too was bothered how parents on the cruise let their kids run free ( as in woke my sleeping 2 year old running and yelling down the hall). But it's spring break, I expected lots of kids. Heard several different people complaining about "all the kids on the ship", including a couple talking very loudly at a crew member about how their cruise should be refunded b/c all the kids on the ship ruined their cruise experience.

I was taken out by norovirus and back in the room, but DH and another family (friends) had gone to Liberty Tree Tavern back when it was a character meal. They had 4 kids between them. I'm not really sure what all happened, but the child free couple next to them told my husband and friends as they left "thank you for ruining our romantic dinner experience with your children". I am sure the kids were probably loud, but I know they would not have been unruly - neither my family or theirs tolerates that. But come one...seriously. Dude if that is your plan for romance - wow!

 

[deanimal]

I'm probably in the minority, but I don't think I'd ever go to Disney as an adult with no kids. Don't get me wrong, I love taking my family and seeing the magic through their eyes. But when I see adults there on their own while I don't judge them, I do genuinely wonder why they come. Sure, it's fun and all, but if I was traveling without kids there's so many other options. Standing in line to greet a sweaty person in a costume when I could be relaxing on a Caribbean beach or strolling the markets of Provence? But, hey, I don't see the point of boxing matches or country music concerts either but if that's your thing I would never say you shouldn't go.

One thing that I do object to, though, is any sort of "adult" behavior at Disney that detracts from the wholesome family atmosphere of Disney. If you want to get tipsy, use foul language, make out with your partner etc, then you should go to Vegas and have a "real" adult holiday. And you should expect strollers, energetic kids, excited teenagers, and lots of chaos that comes with vacationing families.

So, I have to agree with those who've said that Disney is for kids of all ages. I just have slightly higher standards for the behavior of the adult kids.

 

[yooperfan]

Kids of all ages for sure. That said, I don't get people who are easily annoyed by kids heading to Disney. Hubs and I honeymooned there, and have done DL without kiddos, too so I totally see the appeal for a childless visit. However, I've had coworkers grouse about all the kids they encountered on their trip. Not sure what they expected...

My issue is those who think WDW is only about the kids. When I spend thousands to take my 1 hard earned vacation a year, no, I'm not going to give up my spot because you were to busy to arrive early and wait an hour like I did even though you claim it means so much to your child. Sorry, got carried away.

 

[Coyotesweat]

I'm probably in the minority, but I don't think I'd ever go to Disney as an adult with no kids. Don't get me wrong, I love taking my family and seeing the magic through their eyes. But when I see adults there on their own while I don't judge them, I do genuinely wonder why they come. Sure, it's fun and all, but if I was traveling without kids there's so many other options. Standing in line to greet a sweaty person in a costume when I could be relaxing on a Caribbean beach or strolling the markets of Provence? But, hey, I don't see the point of boxing matches or country music concerts either but if that's your thing I would never say you shouldn't go.

One thing that I do object to, though, is any sort of "adult" behavior at Disney that detracts from the wholesome family atmosphere of Disney. If you want to get tipsy, use foul language, make out with your partner etc, then you should go to Vegas and have a "real" adult holiday. And you should expect strollers, energetic kids, excited teenagers, and lots of chaos that comes with vacationing families.

So, I have to agree with those who've said that Disney is for kids of all ages. I just have slightly higher standards for the behavior of the adult kids.

Well, hubby and I are coming, no kids (never had any), I'm 50 and haven't been in 25 yrs, he is 59 and the whole Disney park experience he managed was 8 hours as a young adult. We are going because I sure has a good time on my

 

[smidgy]

Weird, I've never heard anyone say anything remotely close to "Disney is first and foremost about kids"... Seriously.

I do hear alot about it being a great family destination, but that's about it.

Honestly, this seems like much ado about nothing.

Dan

well, people on these boards, and at the parks, have said it often. as this poster says:

My issue is those who think WDW is only about the kids. When I spend thousands to take my 1 hard earned vacation a year, no, I'm not going to give up my spot because you were to busy to arrive early and wait an hour like I did even though you claim it means so much to your child. Sorry, got carried away.

often people expect adults to let kids in front of them in lines, for characters, rides. or in front of them for parades, illuminations, etc.

Now I WILL allow the kids in front of me (even tho I waited for that spot) but, not the parnets.. they can stand behind me.


we have taken many , many trips, just hubby and I, and we love it and will continue to do so..
and, since we are on vacation, we might get a bit tipsy,, it's legal , it's allowed. I don't swear, but as long as I'm not driving, and not causing some sort of scene, alcoholic beverages are sold, are legal, disney has provided me with free transportation. we will be enjoying legal adult beverages on our Disney vacation, just us two 50 something lovebirds!!! (love that grand marinier slushie!!!!)

 

[CaliBear]

My issue is those who think WDW is only about the kids. When I spend thousands to take my 1 hard earned vacation a year, no, I'm not going to give up my spot because you were to busy to arrive early and wait an hour like I did even though you claim it means so much to your child. Sorry, got carried away.

yup yup yup yup yup. This has happened to me, exactly. More than once! Waiting for parade or fireworks show and an angry adult wants me to give up my seat that I've been warming for an hour to their kid because "this is for the kids", complete with eye roll.

 

[Coyotesweat]

Well, hubby and I are coming, no kids (never had any), I'm 50 and haven't been in 25 yrs, but lived in CA as a child and got to visit DL a few times. he is 59 and the whole Disney park experience he managed was 8 hours as a young adult. And he knows all about the history of Disney and the characters, and grew up watching mickey mouse club on TV. We are going because I sure had a good time on my last visit, and because as a child he longed for his family to move to California so he could go to Disneyland, but it just didn't happen. He would have if there had been a way, but sometimes life happens. Now there is a way, and off we go to enjoy six nights of value-priced magic together. I don't begrudge the tired, starry-eyed kids, or the frazzled parents, and hope everyone attending with us has a terrific time.

Katie