My family and I are planning our first trip to go to Disney in November. I haven't been in 30 years so have no idea where to stay. I'm torn on what hotel to book. I'd like to stay at a nice hotel near the park to avoid the long bus lines but can't decide if its worth the money. I'm debating between booking the Wilderness Lodge and Art of Animation.
No matter how you slice it, unless you rent a car or don't mind taking uber/lyft, there is no resort that is convenient to every park.
If you are solely looking for transportation convenience, I would recommend considering the following:
Value Resort - Pop Century - this will give you Skyliner access to DHS and EP (bus to AK and MK). At AoA, I would consider a family suite, but they price around the same as a mod. I would not recommend a standard LM room at AoA
Mod Resort - Caribbean Beach - again, Skyliner access to two parks. Is it my favorite mod? No, I like the Port Orleans Resorts, but they aren't open yet and they only offer bus transportation to the parks.
Deluxe - Wilderness Lodge is lovely and will offer boat transportation to MK and bus transportation to all four parks. If you are looking for better transportation at a deluxe, every other deluxe (other than AKL), will offer you closer proximity to at least one of the theme parks. For a first time trip, if budget allows, I highly recommend Grand Floridian - it's WDW's flagship resort, has beautiful views of MK and offers monorail access and walking access to MK (and usually monorail access to EP though we don't know when that will start again). If you would like to be within walking distance of EP and DHS, I highly recommend YC/BC, BWI or BCV and BWV in the EP resort area.
If budget allows, yes, I think it's worth upgrading your hotel to lessen your transportation times. WDW is the size of Manhattan and it takes quite a while to get from point A to point B.