(I happen to know that I am getting a
D23 membership as an anniversary gift next month...don't ask me how I know...hehehehe...I'll let you know what I think...
1. I think going through a travel agents should alleviate some of your stress...they get to make your ADRs, room ressies, etc...Go for it...
It is easy to become a little OCD with Disney, obsessed, etc...I know I am/have begun to be as well...

...all good things in moderation...
2. YOU need a Disney break...LL....you wild and crazy lady you

...I think it is very healthy to take a break...you can still love Disney, the parks, movies, etc and not go every year...(or multiple times a year...

We've gotten a little tied in to going to Disney every year...and that isn't going to change next year but I think we'll probably have a break in 2011...(well we might do to DL for a couple day as part of a Grand Canyon to CA road trip...does that really count though...

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Maine is beautiful-we've only gotten up through the Yorks and Oqunquit and the Kennebunks...but what we saw was beautiful...I think that renting a cabin there would be a fabulous vacation...
(I will send all kinds of good wishes on the baby front...I think you'd be a great mom...

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3. the Parasailing-I am in deep admiration of your desire to do so -Go for it girl...on the other hand...I can kind of see Jen's point about the cold...but if you are a hardy New Englander and think you can handle...YOU GO GIRL...
I'm glad your recovery is going well...