Are you trying to say ask the family how they would work it so they get the same rides in the same amount of time as a family without any disabilities? That might be a nice way to get some of the individuals to back down for a minute when they realize it's not fair if they get more rides, but the perception in cases like these seems to be that families without disabilities don't ever need down time, naps, have to split up, take potty breaks, etc. As if telling a non-disabled 3 year old to hold it will buy me so much more time than saying that to a disabled 3 year old.
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This. Once thing I've noticed reading FP pages and boards about the
DAS/GAC debates...is that some of the parents seem to think that having a non-disabled child means that we run from ride to ride, that you can be there from RD to closing without stopping, and there is never an emergency pee stop or a meltdown. Yes, the disabled child's meltdowns may be harder to cope with, that they may not understand the behavior is wrong, but most 2 year olds struggle with that concept as well. I've never been able to keep the little ones at the park more than 3 or 4 hours without leaving to go nap and cool down at the hotel. And yes, we even split up (from a family unit) so DH or DH/DS together can ride a ride no one else wants/can do...or someone goes to the hotel with the little one and someone else stays at the park.
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I struggle with this concept as therr are many terminal children that do not get wish trips, or that have trips by other organisations.
It would be much more beneficial that every child with terminal illness or likewise disability could if proven get the same accommodation.
I have a problem with this. look, if the child is on a wish trip, Disney will bend over backwards for that child---and I'm ok with that. If any other organization works
WITH Disney to send a child on that type of trip, Disney should work with them for that child---and I'm ok with that.
But if you let every Tom, Dick and Harry with a mildly autistic child (and let's be honest---the parents of kids in wheelchairs aren't the ones having a hissy fit over the DAS----it's the parents of cognitively disabled children) gets a FOTL pass, then everyone's kid will have a mildly autistic disability. It happened with the GAC. Then it goes from just having mom and dad and 2 siblings to grandma and uncle Joe and cousins that this kid has never seen before having to ride with the kid. It goes from having 3 people jump in front of the 200 people in line to having 30 people jump in front of those 200. That impacts everyone in that line. When you go from 2 families of 5, to 20 families of 7, that makes the people who have been waiting in the line for 30 minutes have to wait just that much longer......and those people aren't the ones able to go to the bathroom or get a snack or go see a princess during that 30 minutes. So, yes, I'm saying that there have to be limits, to those who get those FOTL passes.
I'm sorry that people have to deal with these issues--I truly am. But you have to DEAL with them---not expect the world to bend over backwards for you. And that comment will probably make me seem like a horrible person. IMO, if you aren't teaching your children how to work around the problems they encounter, then you are part of the problem.