Evi, when is your wedding date? Believe me, I felt VERY inactive for a LONG time! Many of my friends would ask "How's the wedding planning coming" and I wouldn't have an answer because I wasn't actively doing something! I'm only 50 days until embarkation, so I've got a lot to do in not a lot of time!
I was afraid the answer to the freeze dried floral would be "no" but I was thinking about just bringing them aboard anyways and claim ignorance!

But I do want to contact a Perfect Gift and see what I can work out with her for rose petals. I have 45 guests, so I have no problem arranging somebody to bring them along! I think the easiest plan would be to send them to my FBIL since he and his wife be responsible for getting the flower girls to the site (Which won't be Outlook for me

Probably D Lounge since my party is so large)
I really suggest that you try bringing a photographer aboard with you! The onboard photographers are the ones that take photos of characters or of people against a backdrop, they're not WEDDING photographers! I got a Pinterest account so I could bookmark every image that spoke to me, and I tried to articulate WHAT I liked about the photo (lighting, pose, etc) that way I can show those to my photographer to try to replicate the photos I like. I know it's a little nerve-wracking not KNOWING the ship! I feel so much more comfortable leading my first-timer photographer around because I've taken a "research" cruise to get a better understanding! I took a ton of pictures, PLEASE take a look! It can give you some ideas or gorgeous places to take photos! (
http://s1187.photobucket.com/albums/z393/JBeanBunny/Jan 2012 DCL cruise/ ) I also made sure to add captions to each photo so you know where the picture was taken! Take note of spots you like to share with your photographer!
I know what you mean about the music! A trio would be really cool! Maybe if Disney makes enough money from
DCL brides, they'll expand their options to cater to us! (Hey, we can dream for the future brides, right?) If you want a ipod hookup, do it! Pick your dream songs! I know that not everybody is into Disney music... But seeing as I've adored Disney my whole life and my fiance and I met at Disney World and we've both worked for WDW for many many years (We even got engaged at
Disneyland!) So my All-Disney playlist really fits us! I'm ecstatic about having a pianist, personally. I think it'll make these supposed "children's" songs sound more elegant!
If you don't like the 'bunched up tablecloth' look, bring it up to your onboard coordinator! They're there to serve you and something as simple as a table cloth seems like it shouldn't be a problem to remedy! Also, add ANY requests into your planning packet!!! I made SO many notes in the margins and Meredith commended me for filling it out so thoroughly! Meredith will go over your packet with you and address everything before she sends it off to the cruise line. The more info they know, the better they can serve you! I told Meredith in my packet that many of my guests are non-drinkers, and she suggested that I also serve iced tea (free of charge) along with the iron horse fairytale cuvee champagne! It can never hurt to ask!
let me know what you're planning on putting in your goody bags AND what you plan to have as your wedding favor! I'm so incredibly curious