We were at WDW from May 4th thru May 12th. It was our 29th time at Disney. We are a couple, 60ish with no kids. We were never commando Disney people but now more than ever, we take things slowly. FP+ allowed us to do way more than our last trip in 2012. We hate lines and will bypass even a favorite ride if it means waiting more than 10 minutes, the spirit is willing to make rd but we never actually do it and we are too tired to take advantage of late night crowds. (sucks to get old) Also, we've never been rollercoaster people, so that helps with our FP+ selections.
Do you feel all the complaints about longer lines now are valid? - well, I agree that the lesser rides like IASW and LWTL have longer lines but it's really easy, in our case to get FP's for them. For example, LWTL actually had a 20 min wait, so on our way to Soaring, we changed up our FP's to get on LWTL an hour from then. After Soaring and a quick drink we hopped on LWTL and then our FP for SE. The FP return lines were great except for the Safari. The line looked ridiculous and we asked the cm, are you kidding me? He said it was only 10 minutes (standby was 90 min) and it turned out to be 15 minutes. Not sure what the problem was but they were letting people through without touching Mickey to Mickey in order to get things moving.
Do you feel that the FP+ implementation has made it harder for you to do the attractions you like? -Made it much easier. For example, in 2012, for whatever reason, POTC and JC always had a long line and we never made it on them for that trip. So, this time we scheduled Fps for them. It was so easy to manipulate the FPs on my phone. JC had no line, so we didn't use our FP. I was constantly moving up the times and even rides on the APP. It wasn't burdensome - was kind of fun and we were on 4th, etc FP's fairly early. FP kiosks were all over the place wit gaggles of CM's and their IPads around to help. My only complaint is that there is only the International Gateway kiosk in WS. When we were roaming around the countries I would have like to make additional FP+s for FW attractions but not willing to walk all the way back to do it when I still wanted to spend more time in WS.
Do you feel like you are limited on how many times you can ride and see certain attractions? Not at all. We had FP's for our 2nd or 3rd Maelstrom on the trip but when we got there the ride was down. I thought it was very cool to get the email giving us a FP for any ride at any time to make up for it.
Do you feel like you do not get to do as much as you did in the past because of FP+? Not at all. Another example - the last few trips we either would have had to wait in line for a half hour for HS Little Mermaid or we just missed it so I made a FP for it and it was so nice to only have to get there 5 minutes before the show, see it and then go to our BD res for lunch.
I realize that for family's and those with more aggressive touring styles, there would probably be different conclusions, but for those who like to take it slow and don't mind playing with and manipulating the FP's on the APP, FP+ is pretty awesome.

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