disgusted ----- big ben....

If she was so drunk that she cannot remember the event, then she couldn't have given consent. You need to be lucid to give consent. The man is a pig. This is rape.

No that is no excuse at all. You can't get blotto on booze follow them around sleep with them and then next day after the blooze glasses have come of claim rape. In that case he may be a pig (never heard off him Ben who?) but that is no excuse for acting like the town bike!!!!!!!!!!!
 
No that is no excuse at all. You can't get blotto on booze follow them around sleep with them and then next day after the blooze glasses have come of claim rape. In that case he may be a pig (never heard off him Ben who?) but that is no excuse for acting like the town bike!!!!!!!!!!!

Lack of consent equals rape. Pure and simple.
 
Lack of consent equals rape. Pure and simple.

So how to do you prove that? A girl can be sober and still claim to have been drunk. Are men supposed to have legal forms signed and witnessed before having sex there is nothing pure or simple about the whole thing.
 

So how to do you prove that? A girl can be sober and still claim to have been drunk. Are men supposed to have legal forms signed and witnessed before having sex there is nothing pure or simple about the whole thing.

I believe in this case, there were many witnesses to the fact that this girl was intoxicated. I can't believe some still blame rape victims for their rapes.
 
I believe in this case, there were many witnesses to the fact that this girl was intoxicated. I can't believe some still blame rape victims for their rapes.
How about because rape is being thrown around for more than rape. Getting drunk and behaving how you don't normally isn't just the man's fault. From what I understand she was underage and pie eyed? So how did she get served? With forged id? Where is her resposibility not to get so pie eyed but also not to try adult games she wasn't ready for. At the moment there is a culture of not going out to have a few drinks but the intention is to get complety blotto which puts people in a dangerous situation but you have to be responsible. He was stupid to take what was offered she was stupid to get so drunk that she felt the lack of inibition and offer to have sex with him.
 
Wow. I couldn't disagree with the last posters any more. Even the local chief of police in Georgia knew he was guilty...it just was that it would be a "he said/she said" and they didn't think they could get a conviction. I absolutely care about what a player does off the field-character matters. We have thrown away any "#7" merchandise we had, and will never buy any again. He is a disgrace to the city.

Gee. I always thought that juries decided innocent or guilt. I guess you learn something new everyday :)
 
I live 20 miles from the community where this happened in Georgia. The media here has portrayed this as crime that happened but couldn't be substantiated. There were two girls on two separate occasions who claimed he behaved in a very unsportsman like way. I personally think he should have been kicked off the team completely.
 
Woman accuses Colts' Eric Foster of sexual assault in civil suit ... Apr 20, 2010 ... Indianapolis Colts defensive tackle Eric Foster is being sued by a hotel employee who claims the player groped her in his hotel room just ...
www.usatoday.com/.../colts/2010-04-20-eric-foster-allegation_N.htm - Cached

Thx! :) I was hoping someone would help me out.

Your signature is perfect, although 7 would be better! :thumbsup2

I do agree with tge title of this tread, I am disgusted with the 4 games that Ben got. 1 maybe, but 4!

To think that Pgh is now not behind Ben, i would venture to guess it is a very small percentage.

I believe that too.
This really irritates me. This sounds as if you are saying becasue she is female there is no way she would have known this except for googling it. I really hope i am reading this wrong.

Let me tell you a little about Pittsburgh and Pittsburgh women. We all bleed black and gold. We are born that way. We have not one but 3 female football teams in the city(where most cities do not even have one). One is our semi pro team (only meaning they do not get paid)the Pittsburgh Passion. They have been featured on sportscenter in SI and are televised to more than 12 million homes (just wait until this season!:rolleyes1). To think that women don't know football? sadly mistaken.

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Amen Sister!!!

Cant wait for Ben to come back :goodvibes

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There was too much similarity between the girl in Reno's story and the girl in Georgia's story for this to be a coincidence. He has been on a bad path for a few years. He skips out on his restaurant bills, too, saying the owners should be glad he's there, because he brings them business. He's a pig. Not to mention that he threw high into double coverage intentionally last season until Heinz Ward (who's a saint compared to the moron, Big Ben) was injured. The longer suspension should have been enforced. Rooneys need to dump him at the earliest opportunity, whether they take a loss or not.


Obviously you don't have a clue! :sad2: If you watched any football you would know HINES Ward is usually always double covered. Ummm thats what happens when you're an excellent receiver. And your SAINT, cheats on his wife, hello. Not exactly a saint if you ask me.

Rooneys aren't dumping Ben anytme soon. As another poster said, keep dreaming . I hear Cleveland and Baltimore are looking for some fans .
 
I live 20 miles from the community where this happened in Georgia. The media here has portrayed this as crime that happened but couldn't be substantiated. There were two girls on two separate occasions who claimed he behaved in a very unsportsman like way. I personally think he should have been kicked off the team completely.

Of course the media portrayed it as a crime. Any other way, it wouldn't have made the news.

I'm personally glad then that you don't own the Steelers! :rolleyes1
 
If you are walking, talking and saying yes, then the answer is yes it isn't rape.

Guess you don't know too many drinkers cause a lot of them don't remember what they did when they were drinking. So unless she passed out and he picked her up and carried her out then it would be rape, but if she was saying yes then it isn't rape and it isn't his fault she got so drunk she did things she didn't want to have done if she were sober. These girls do need to hole themselves accountable for getting so drunk then doing things that they don't like when they sober up. He doesn't walk around with a breathalyzer so it is up to the girls to stay sober enough to know what they are agreeing to.

As far as the Rooney's they will only get rid of him if he is costing them money or they can make more money without him, Till then he's a Steeler.

And if you think the old football players were saints you have another thought coming! Things just weren't "broadcast" the way they are now with the 24 hour news looking for something to fill the time between commercials.
 
lets say, you were my friend and the guy wasnt even a pro ball player and you followed him from bar to bar to bar, drinking excessivley the entire time and had a button on that said DTF and told everyone what it meant....then you cry rape... I might call you something, but it would'nt be a rape victim.

sorry just dont see it, and yes i read all the reports...was he wrong to act the way he did, yes...but rape no.
 
I live 20 miles from the community where this happened in Georgia. The media here has portrayed this as crime that happened but couldn't be substantiated. There were two girls on two separate occasions who claimed he behaved in a very unsportsman like way. I personally think he should have been kicked off the team completely.

She was definitely given a nice sum to keep quiet and drop the case, but that doesn't entitle him to act like the "victim." All the money in the world isn't going to make the public believe that snow job.
 
She was definitely given a nice sum to keep quiet and drop the case, but that doesn't entitle him to act like the "victim." All the money in the world isn't going to make the public believe that snow job.

Where and who portrays Ben as the victim? :confused3

He has gone through the ringer, so to speak, ostersized by the media, fans, non-fans and even eminem, for goodness sake. Plus suspended for 4 games when he was convicted of nothing. Hardly the victim, more like the scape goat!
 
She was definitely given a nice sum to keep quiet and drop the case, but that doesn't entitle him to act like the "victim." All the money in the world isn't going to make the public believe that snow job.

And if she was truly raped and truly had a criminal case then all the money in the world shouldn't have kept her from going to trial.She should have wanted justice not a paycheck. Plus if it was a strong case there isn't a DA around who wouldn't have wanted that on their record winning against the big bad Professional football player.
 
This really irritates me. This sounds as if you are saying becasue she is female there is no way she would have known this except for googling it. I really hope i am reading this wrong.

Let me tell you a little about Pittsburgh and Pittsburgh women. We all bleed black and gold. We are born that way. We have not one but 3 female football teams in the city(where most cities do not even have one). One is our semi pro team (only meaning they do not get paid)the Pittsburgh Passion. They have been featured on sportscenter in SI and are televised to more than 12 million homes (just wait until this season!:rolleyes1). To think that women don't know football? sadly mistaken.

you got that ............... re "woman" ---- how? - geez nothing to do with m/f.....BUT lack of reporting that one had to google....parnoid much? I am a woman and know football - but thank you.
 
Just so we're clear, I googled that story to give YOU the link that YOU asked for, I knew the story, no google needed, thank you very much :goodvibes
 
And if she was truly raped and truly had a criminal case then all the money in the world shouldn't have kept her from going to trial.She should have wanted justice not a paycheck. Plus if it was a strong case there isn't a DA around who wouldn't have wanted that on their record winning against the big bad Professional football player.

It definitely wasn't a strong case, but all the witnesses' testimony backs up her side of the story. Problem is, nobody was in the bathroom where it happened except the girl and the pig. The Steelers used to be such a nice "family" team. They still have a group of great, respectable guys, but they are being over-shadowed by the losers. It's some consolation that Ben will never see a new endorsement contract.
 
you got that ............... re "woman" ---- how? - geez nothing to do with m/f.....BUT lack of reporting that one had to google....parnoid much? I am a woman and know football - but thank you.

Thx but as I posted earlier , I didn't google it either. I knew about Eric Foster , since alot of us here in Pittsburgh feel Ben didn't get treated fairly . If one gets suspended, then all should. Consistency at least. Same cases, different punishments and obviously different media coverage.

It definitely wasn't a strong case, but all the witnesses' testimony backs up her side of the story. Problem is, nobody was in the bathroom where it happened except the girl and the pig. The Steelers used to be such a nice "family" team. They still have a group of great, respectable guys, but they are being over-shadowed by the losers. It's some consolation that Ben will never see a new endorsement contract.


"family team". :rotfl: You really are funny. As I said prior, you must walk around with rose colored glasses.

And how do you know about endorsements? When he takes our Steelers to our stairway to seven , Ben will be good ol' Ben again. Big corporations care about money and if they feel Ben will sell their product, he will be signed. Guess time will tell with that one.
 


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