This is us exactly. As you can see, I have my ticker going but its not specific to any resort and I only know the day we will arrive. The resort, number of days and what type of tickets we buy (base vs. hopper) will depend upon discounts. If we don't get any for our timeframe we will be doing a value for sure. I prefer a moderate but I am still very happy with a value. If discounts end and rack rates keep climbing, our Disney days may very well be winding down and that will make me beyond sad.
How we afford to go year after year is sacrificing other areas of our lives. As the recession has hit us we have had to go once per year vs the two times or even three we did in years past. In those days, dh travelled non stop for business and we always had frequent flyer miles. We also had AP's and I would get rates as low as $49 per night at a value. And my kids were younger and ate for so much less. I found an old receipt from 2004 for Chef Mickey's dinner and it was $104 for our dinner. Today that same meal would cost us a bit over $200.
We feel very lucky to still be going at all, especially given dh was laid off last year. However, as an example my family has been to two movies in all of 2011, we have not eaten down at a sit down restaurant since we ate at Crystal Palace on June 11th, and we decide as a family to stay at home all year long to make our WDW trip happen. We do a camping trip or two but no other type of vacations other than when we go to IL and stay with my brother at his home for a week. Bottom line, Disney still gets my money, but AMC Movies, Chilis, Applebees and other such places do not. If Disney prices me out altogether I'll be sad and we'll probably do a beach vacation instead since we can rent a condo and do our own meals. Time will tell.
We save where we can at Disney, gone are the days we buy tee shirts, ride photos and sit down meals. Also deluxe resorts are in our past for the time being. This last trip we bought a Christmas ornament and that was it. We have to fly (we live in Colorado and its over 1800 miles each way) but I play around with the days we fly and that can help.
I will also add that in all of our trips to WDW (17 total) we have never eaten three meals a day. I have no idea how we stay full because at home we eat three meals but at WDW we always eat only two and a snack (often one I bring from home like a granola bar, beef jerkey or planters peanut packs I get at Sams). We also always share meals and we often get the free ice water vs. soda. If we get
free dining, we don't share nearly as much but the only way I'll do any
Disney Dining Plan, full or counter, is if its "free". Because that discount, even with rack rate on the room is my family of four "adults" best discount. Otherwise its a lot of meal sharing and pizza from the food court. And a suitcase full of snacks and food I bring from home. I am not too proud to cart my own food on the plane (and we fly Southwest and get free bag check).
Saving for Disney is a family affair. My son came home the other night. He had gone to the mall with a friend to walk around and have dinner (good old Del Taco, three tacos for a dollar!) and came home emptied his change into our change bucket. My daughter collects cans all year and then turns those in. Bless her heart, she maybe gets $5 but its something. My kids know we don't do the local type things their friends do but they agree two weeks at WDW is way bettr than numerous trips to our local amusement park, zoo, movies, full serve restaurants and that sort of thing.
We are so lucky. I know a lot of people who do the same thing we do all year long and that 's just to make ends meet, not to go to WDW.