Thank you everyone for your advice and support.
We're having a trying day here, I told DH he could have custody and I'd run away from home.

He thinks I'm kidding, if only he knew...

Utahmama, Delaney is a button pusher, she's just like her grandmother (my mom) the two of them are big into controlling everything and fussing is they don't get their way. My mom is a whole other therapy session all by herself.
Part of the problem is our apartment, we have too much stuff for it and it always looks like a bomb went off in here, I know I can't think straight and I'm sure she can't either. I always joke that if someone in authority ever saw my apartment they'd take my kid. DH has told me he's going to take her out for a few hours on both Saturday and Sunday so I can get some work done around here without the extra "help."
I kept her home from preschool today because DuH (that would be Duh Hubby) didn't get the plates renewed on the truck I drive (you know he drives my truck and I managed to make sure his plates didn't expire

) and then sprung it on me that it needed emissions done on it. I'm glad I kept her home, I'd have never made it to pick her up. Gotta love it, we'll see if he remembers that today is our anniversary.
Delaney and I are going to be running off to the dollar store in a few to pick up a couple of things so we can start our sticker charts and ticket system. We'll see how this works. She's also been told that we're cleaning out her room, she's got way too many toys so we're going to be cutting the number down significantly. I can't wait until we have a house because all the toys will be in the playroom and only the bed, our sleepy time buddy, and a couple of books will be in the bedroom.
I went to Hancock Fabric yesterday. I convinced Delaney to have a Little Einsteins birthday party and I'm sewing the favor bags so I needed a little more fabric.
Teresa, I'm in on at least two pettiskirts. I just have to wait until the end of the month, I owe a certain mouse most of the next paycheck. Who needs a monkey on your back, the mouse is much cuter.
I was looking at the petti colors, I think all the mamas need gold lame pettiskirts, we can start a whole new disco movement!
I've spent part of last night and this morning ironing the mountain of prewashed fabric that was cluttering up my dining room. I should have that all put away here within the half hour.
We're supposed to be going out to dinner tonight for our anniversary to a new Indian Tandoori restaurant. My English husband is practically weak in the knees hoping that they have good curry since "no one here in the states makes really good curry." Should be interesting, the menu looks good, so I'll be off to try new things.
I'll pop back in later today.
Thanks again everyone for all the support and advice.