princessmom29
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Well, not to create controversy, but I consider myself a "victim" of natural childbirth and in NO WAY found it wonderful or empowering. Pain and torture would be the words that I would choose.
I was induced and it had taken almost 20 hrs to get my first contraction. My water had broke but nothing was happening. They wouldn't give me the epidural for fear it would stall the contractions. They did however give me staydol (sp???) which basically puts you in a coma but doesn't remove pain. So I would pass out cold and wake up screaming in agony. At one point I vaugely remember some issues with the heartbeat, umbilical cord around the neck and an internal fetal monitor. I was totally out of it and had no idea what was going on and in incredible pain. It was the worst of the worst.
So, like you say, everyone has different thresholds and what works for one person doesn't always work for others.
You must be one tough woman if you "enjoyed" natural childbirth![]()
Staydol is nasty stuff, and inductions are tough b/c of the pitocin ect that you are being given. Pitocin+ no epidural = agony. Sorry you had such a bad time. Something very similar happened to my best friend from college who ended up being sectioned anyway so it was all for naught.