disneyfav4ever
No matter how your heart is grieving, if you keep
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You don't. I love my grandmother, but we do not see eye to eye.DF4E: don't take this the wrong way, but i think that's kinda crappy of your grandma. you should get a present no matter what you weigh! i understand the whole motivation thing, but that's just kind of extreme. especially since your goal is 150 and HER goal for you is 130. i hope i don't offend you by saying that.![]()
It's not just my weight that she makes comments about. The first time she met my DF, after he left, she said that no one had told her that he was black, which actually considering the way my parents feel about that, isn't so suprising. She also thinks meeting Disney characters is a waste of time, and she never wants to look at my vacation pictures since they are all the "same."
I'm sure there's other stuff she said too, but luckily the day she was here, I had an eight hour shift, so I only saw her when I came home late at night. It was actually kind of odd, since she came in the morning, but then had to go shopping with my mom as soon as she got here, while I was asleep, so I didn't see her before work, and then when I got home from work, it was late and she had to go to bed. Then the next day, after I said I'd wake up early so we could visit, they went shopping again right after I woke up, except I saw her for lunch, but right after we ate, (and she tried to feed me cookies,) she decided it was time to go. So I only saw her for a total of maybe two hours.
I don't get why she even bothered to come to our house, which is a two hour drive, when I'm seeing her next weekend, and I didn't really see her that much anyway. I also don't get why they had to go shopping two days in a row, and why they didn't even bother to ask me if I wanted to come, after my mom had me request off work the one day they were there so I had time to visit.
I did have a nice visit with my grandfather, since he's the one who took me out to lunch the first day, (why I had ice cream my grandmother insisted I get when she was not even there I have no idea.) He also invited me to go to Wal-Mart with him the next day when my mom and grandmother were out shopping.


on your loss!


He has a good amount of gum & lip trauma as well but overall he is doing great.
to everyone reading this (including any sneaky Body Boarders. You deserve
).
What about me???

Hi Mel I haven't seen you lately. Everything ok.