Okay, not to hijack the thread, but...
We haven't been to Disneyland for years. We are east-coasters and are returning this fall. My husband has PTSD (from serving in the Middle East) and can get anxious if he feels "trapped" I guess is the best way of explaining it. Some days he is fine, some hours he is not. I only wish it were consistent. Depending on the line, he can get anxious because he is surrounded by strangers, it's loud, he has no immediate exit (Toy Story Mania at WDW is a huge no-no, for example). He has paranoia still and while we are working on it together, it's definitely still there and very real. Nemo, for example, is never going to be a problem. Open air and easy freedom!
He had a
DAS last time. We didn't use it much, only whenever it was obvious he might not be able to handle a line for whatever ride our kids wanted to go on. We utilized the Fastpasses if we could (oh how I remember waiting in line for RSR FPs!) If needed, we go back to our room. Or I took the kids in the standby line alone. I was pregnant last trip so this only worked for certain rides, which again made the DAS very handy!
We haven't finished discussing whether or not he will get one this fall or not. His issues are not consistent. Obviously outside stress contributes. We just don't know.
However, I do know that with these new changes I am nervous.
Meaning if he goes to ask for one and they deny him... It will really embarrass him. I know that is small cookies but I know it will affect his mood and our day. He does not like to tell people about his issues as he feels it makes him less of a man (working on that, too) and I know he will see a denial as someone saying his issues aren't real. 10 years of marriage and I know how he thinks.
I know that no one can say anything for absolute certainty, but you all know much more about the changes than I do. If it's unlikely he'll get a DAS if he goes, I'd just rather avoid it entirely.
Thoughts are greatly appreciated.