My guy friend is one who actually got his without an attorney so there is hope! He did go in person to apply. All paperwork he received from SS had information on when you might need an attorney. They will dissect everything your husband's doctor has written down including if his doctor wrote side notes. My friend mentioned to the doctor he was bored (used to working fulltime). Dr asked him what he was doing, he said gardening, some other things and mentioned he went to the casino twice a month for fun. SS read that and his son is in charge of his ss check. After 6 months he could petition it but since the son just tranfers the money to his account, they haven't gone through the trouble.
All of this from a mosquito. West Nile Virus-Enciphilitis-enciphilitis induced parkinsonism