Dis Breast Cancer Survivors Part III - GAGWTA!

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Good morning ladies

Guess what?? My appt. was...cancelled!!:mad: Well I am not too mad. They callled when I was in the shower and said the dr. was sick I called back and they had me rescheduled for...Dec 15, I said to them, um that will not work for me ( didint mention I would be in Disney World:)). So she says, I can do tomm. but I dont know if the dr. will be well enough then. I said, um no, thats o.k. (Thinking there is no way I want what he has so close to Thanksgiving and if he is the Dr. and callls out sick, you know it must be BAD!!). So I hold, she gives me next tues. Yippee!! So of course I was all psyched up etc. Dh took me to McDs for breakfast to calm me down, sweet of him.

As for that breast cancer report..I am so against this also, Actually when I was in my early 20s I had a tumor out, it wasnt cancerous, but a fibroadenoma. And of course we all know stories about lots of the sisters here. I am glad the ACS does not agree with this report.

GTAGWTA. Thinking of you all. Have a great day everyone.
 
I wonder if the Doc just wanted to play hookie... or maybe someone in his family is sick and he just needed to be off. Easier to say that the Doc is sick then explain more. BUT I wouldnt go the next day either =0)
 
LMP - Sorry to hear your appointment was canceled. If the doc really is sick, you don't need to be around him right now anyway. Hope everything goes well next week.

Sha - Glad things are going so well for your Mom.

I too am concerned about the new mammogram recommendations. I think they're ridiculous! Nearly everyone I know that has had breast cancer was diagnosed well before they were 50. This is a very bad plan.

I saw the radiologist today. When I saw the plastic surgeon last week he was talking about scheduling my implant surgery. I told him I didn't want to do anything until he spoke with the radiologist because I've heard the implants can become hardened during radiation. I told the radiologist I am all about treatment first and cosmetics later. The radiologist said he would start working on my treatment plan and get back to me early next week.

I don't think the plastic surgeon is going to be happy about this, but I feel it's more important to complete my treatment first and worry about the implants after that. We'll see what the plastic surgeon says when I see him on Thursday.

It's always something!;)
 
Longtime lurker, first time poster.

I have followed you all since I was diagnosed with Breast Cancer at age 28. I was diagnosed Stage 3a. I had 4 ac, 4 taxol, year of herceptin, 6 weeks radiation, lupron injections, tamoxifin, and now zometa every 6 months for 3 years.

Your advice and comforting words have been wonderful. It is nice to have somebody understand and relate to what you are going through.

Thanks.
 

Hey, glad you came out of lurkdom, bhmrowe.

You are certainly welcome here.

Being diagnosed at 28 is a hard path to follow. If you feel comfortable sharing, how were you diagnosed?

Yes got home last night, and I missed talking to y'all.

I actually had almost finished a long post last night about our trip when I had trouble sleeping, but it went poof!! Guess I was too tired to operate a computer! :confused3:surfweb:

Our trip was very nice. DH worked Saturday and Sunday late before our Monday am departure which had me stressed out. He started receiving calls on his cell when we arrived in Orlando. After we picked up some stuff at the new Target close to Animal Kingdom (about 4 miles away) and got settled, he started working on his laptop. The Animal Kingdom villa was dark but he proceeded to rearrange everything so he could actually see the computer screen.

Between the work he needed to do for several days, the darkness, and the constantly overcast sky with a few cold late drizzles, I don't think we gave the AKV a chance. We did like the hot tubs but the pool was too cold to swim in. Boma breakfast was great, we both want to return to eat there at lest for breakfast. We also ventured over to Kidani for Sanaa for a late lunch and snagged a table window. I swear we could see animals unbelievable close. Food was great too which I worried about, DH was good with it too.

Thursday we switched to the Waldorf Astoria. It was divine. (Reminds me we saw the Devine character at Ak this trip cavort by the trees, lots of pictures, she was really all into it).

I am posting this now to add on later, I do not want to recreate a second time.

I somehow managed to book our stay at WA on the day of the grand opening. We thought something looked odd with people in uniforms out directing traffic with flashlights ala Disney. One of the valets told us later they were expecting more than 300 vehicles, they had about half that. When we drove up to check in there were at least 20 uniformed valets.

The big wheel investors, the governor and the like came in for the big night (someone told us Michele Obama was supposed to be there Sunday). We were kind of oblivious as the room blew us away and we had reservations at Cali Grill for 9:35 anyways the first night.

They shot off fireworks opening night somewhere out past the water way (probable scared the wildlife to death) but we missed it. We did see the MVMCP fireworks from the Contemporary observation deck before eating at Cali Grill that evening which was inspiring. Great meal there too, our server was Beckey and a survivor as well ( I think 27 years for Ovarian).

Back to the WA, the place was elegant. Orchids must be their signature flower, they were literally everywhere in the lobby and the lounge, even on the landings of each floor, as well as in our room. I am such a goose I see no coffee pot so I ask for one, right? The nice patient bell man tells us that coffee is served in the peacock lounge every morning. So we go to check it out, at the bar it is coffee urn, orchid, coffee urn, orchid, etc. etc. Also orchids at every table and on every side table.

We had a suite which was very roomy. We found out it even had a doorbell when our bags were sent up. There was a nice bar area with a subzero fridge that I think is designed mostly for drinks, etc, but we were able to move a shelf and put in our orange juice and fruit and cheese and the like. There was a nice table and 4 chairs in that area with high quality marble floors. Marble too all over the bathroom. We had a large living room area with a huge flat screen tv, not sure the size. Another large tv of the same type in the bedroom. Very upscale mahogony furniture throughout and granite countertops in the bar area and the bath room. We also had a nice balcony with very nice furniture. The bed and beddings were the best I have ever enjoyed. There seemed to be two comforters, one for show that they turned down at night, and a light once between two sheets. It was very comfortable. The draperies were top notch, very elegant with the crown moldings, and the huge towels so fluffy. there were very comfy robes and slippers for each of us too that were arranged at turndown with a chocolate on the pillow.

I think the best feature overall was the tremendous service, both the valet people and the bellmen and the wonderfull pool area. Even at the pool, the towels and lounge covers were delivered to you, along with water, and you could order food and specialty drinks as well.

It warmed up by Friday so I tried out the lazy river at the Hilton which is attached to the WA by this huge almost unbelievable convention room/ballroom complex. I am having trouble with my right shoulder so I could not handle the lazy river tube too well. I had more success doing laps in the pool (at least with backstroke and sidestroke), and boy that water was warm. I even came home with a sunburn which turned darker today. Love it.

We were able to get late checkout yesterday so I took advantage and stayed in the pool and swam many laps. The pool had one very long side, perfect for slow laps. I had it practically to myself. I have never been so relaxed on the day we left Disney for home.

I cannot wait to go back. I just hope they continue to offer deals like we got. I cannot see how they can do that long term. Those two hotels and the conference center area had to cost a fortune. Lots of art, nice furniture, the best draperies, marble, very plush and upscale carpeting, it had everything. Not to mention the first rate golf course.

There was a Mears bus for transportation to the parks, and we did take it one day but the next day we realized it was much easier to do just get our car from the valet, especially to Hollywood studios and EPCOT since the WA is 5 minutes from each of them (right next to the Caribeach beach resort as you go towards downtown Disney). The bus was very comfortable with plush seats (think ME busses) so I liked them better than the regular disney resort busses, but they did multiple stops and driving was far faster.

We got to ride Space Mountain about 5 minutes after it was first opened to guests for a test run temporarily. I have not ridden it in years but I did ride it once Saturday just to say I did! The entrance is totally redone with interactive games in the queue line. It looks like they made more room inside for the line. Also the loading area is different. The cars are new and more cushioned and maybe a little wider. The ride itself seemed the same to DH (he rides it a lot with our kids) and there were no lights on the side of the cars as before.

I will try and get DH to load the pictures up to the computer and post a few.

According to a magazine about Orlando in the room over 1,000 people have been employed by the new WA/Hilton hotel directly or through the landscaping company or the company that is contracted to do the valet. They better fill those rooms. I would love to know how much $$ was poured into that place.

Off to do laundry. Boy did I ever receive a greeting my my doggie Snappy. She practically leapt into my arms. I don't think we should take another trip anytime soon.

Oh, loved the Osborne lights. We had not seen them since 2002. We made a special effort to see them Sunday evening. I actually started crying I was so touched. It was cool, the snow machine was cranking and the music was wonderful. It is especially cool when the lights dance.

DH and I really got some quality time in together, almost 8 full days together alone. He is a keeper. He was really relaxed, especially once the work phone calls stopped. He did not even plug in the computer at the WA! Love him! He was so patient and accommodating with me.
 
Wow Laurie, sounds like a great trip!! I'd love to see that hotel, it sounds fabulous! :cloud9:

Welcome to the thread, bhmrowe! :welcome: I hope you stick around and feel free to post - the more the merrier, of course nobody wants to be here, but you know what I mean.

wdw4us2, that sounds like a good plan to me. LOL, of course I have no idea what I'm talking about because I didn't have reconstruction, but I would think you have the right idea of treatment first and cosmetics later. ::yes::

Sha, that is wonderful that there will be no chemo or radiation needed for your mom! :yay::woohoo: It's so nice to hear about somebody getting good news!

This whole new recommended mammogram starting at age 50 just makes me want to slap somebody hard! :crazy2: Geesh. I was diagnosed at age 44, invasive and very aggressive grade 3. Yeah....don't think waiting until age 50 would have worked out so great.

LMP, glad you got your appt rescheduled for a better time. And breakfast at McD sounds good! I haven't had it in awhile, and even though I know it's *bad* I still really like those sausage McGriddles! :rolleyes1

Anybody know how Laura's doing? :flower3:

Dawn, nice to see you again! :wave2:

I've officially started my Christmas shopping. Just on-line at this point, but I'm finding that I do more and more of it that way every year. :santa:

:goodvibes:goodvibesGAGWTA!!!! :goodvibes:goodvibes
 
:grouphug:~~~***GAGWTA sistas***~~~:grouphug:

Greetings from a long lost sista!
Surgery was on 11/4. After all was said and done I decided to opt for a permanent ileostomy instead of J Pouch. I just could not find peace with it. Funny thing was more than one nurse told me with my stubborn UC that they thought I made the right choice. I just could not stand the thought of going through more and more surgeries with no guarantees that the UC would be gone. The surgery I had removed every last bit of colon, so no UC, no colon ca. I came home with strep throat. Now my blood clotting med levels are too high (taking 8x longer than normal to clot). Incision is bleeding more, probably due to this. I'm really tired and cannot wait to be fully recovered and finally feeling well...

Hi, I hope you all don't mind me asking a question on here. My mom was diagnosed in the summer with stage 4 lung cancer. She just had her 5th chemo treatment of cisplatin/avastin/alimta/zometa last Monday. She takes compazine for the nausea but it's just not really helping. Is there anything any of you have tried that works? I'd appreciate any ideas. Thanks

I had a horrible time during chemo with nausea, no drugs ever worked. Every time I have had surgery, I wake up violently ill...UNTIL this last surgery. During my prep visit, the nurse practioner (who is battling stage IV ovarian ca with lung mets) mentioned that an anestesiologist there practices accupuncture, she uses it for chemo and said it worked for her.

So prior to surgery I met with the team and the anest. said she would put the needles in after they put me under. I did mention to her that I could not have any procedures on my left side due to my lymph nodes being removed on that side. No problem.

The accupuncture worked!!! I woke up after surgery and other than being drugged up, I felt great! I told my nurse how happy I felt, she laughed and said no one has ever said that in PACU before!:rotfl:

Laurie thank you for sharing your holiday with us. WA sounds beautiful and restful. I'm glad you and your hubby got to recharge your batteries there.
Thank you all for keeping me in your thoughts and prayers with kind cards and notes that brighten my days. I am so low energy right now, this is the first I've typed to anyone in 2 weeks, but I am hangin' with God so it's all good!
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Laura, so glad you opted to post this am. We have been worried about your absence.

I sure hope you continue to gain strength. I never heard of accupuncture during anesthesia. Thanks for sharing that tip. It sounds like you are having the best of care and I am so thankful for that.

My mom is having her impnat exchange early December, and she has been a long term proponent of accupuncture for pain relief for many years. I think I will share your experience with her. It is definitely worth checking into.

I hope the clotting problem resolves very soon. I hope having the rest of the colon gone (and thus the UC completely gone) makes all the difference for you.

Yes I do feel recharged. I came back to my usual payroll gig and getting a new Apple computer. I did not even know how to turn the thing on (I have used a PC since 1985 (I first typed 1885, whoops, I am not THAT old!:thumbsup2) so it was a hard day yesterday. However, they bought me one with this big honking screen, it is like a TV. I can see the numbers!!! Hooray!! I found myself sitting back in my chair much more comfortably. It definitely made a difference in my posture, it might help my back/shoulder issues, I can hope, n'est pas?

I am flabbergasted too abou that governmental panel saying self exams are useless and start the mammograms 10 years later and every other year. My sister's doctor told her at age 47 to not go ONE day past having it annually.

I am very distressed at this news. I am certain it does not apply to our family anyway, neither for my sister with 2 first degree relatives or my daughters with both mom and grandma having basically the same cancer in the same place in the same location.

I cannot wait to see my doctor again and discuss all of this. Do you think it is a cost control issue? It just seems to contradict everything I ever thought I knew about early detection. Sometimes I am glad I am 56 and not growing up in this day and age. I don't see us headed in the right direction.

If I get too stress, I may have to check into the WA again!! DH would have a conniption fit for sure!!
 
Snappy - Thanks for your great review of the WA. My son has wanted to stay there since they first announced they were coming to WDW. We will have to plan a trip there after I'm finished with my treatment.
 
Hey, glad you came out of lurkdom, bhmrowe.

You are certainly welcome here.

Being diagnosed at 28 is a hard path to follow. If you feel comfortable sharing, how were you diagnosed?


I actually found the lump myself and I some how know it was bad. It is hard to explain. I had a lumpectomy and did not get clean margins. So I had a masectomy. No plans for reconstruction at the present time.

I am currently going through genetic counseling because I have a 5 year old daughter. I have tested negative for BCRA 1 and 2. They are now testing for the P-53 gene. I should have those results in the next month or so.

It was a long and difficult road especially when I had a husband and 2 1/2 year old to take care off. I somehow managed to work through the entire thing except for the days I had chemo. I don't know how I did it but I did. I had to fight this for my daughter and husband.
 
Laurie.... where is WA on WDW property???

Laurabelle... what did they tell you to do with your blood being so thin? Did they stop your blood thinner temporarily? I like that info about the acupuncture.
 
Good afternoon sistas:love:

bhmrowe - :welcome: Glad you're here and thank you for sharing your story with us.

Cheryl - Good to "see" you! I bet you wish you had some Garth tickets in your christmas stocking, huh?:) Charley is cute as ever too. I think I might look into some online shoping if the ds want anythig. I usually take the easy way out and just give them money. I dont enjoy shopping. I just dont have the strength now, its too tiring.

Fl Lisa - The priorities are in the right order and I bet a trip to the WA would be great to look forward too

Laurie - Your trip sounds wonderful, :cloud9: heavenly!! Hmm, wonder if I can get my dh to not bring the computer too, but like you it will be just him and me, hmm, sounds like just what we need too!! That was great you got to swim and see the fireworks too. I love the Osborne lights and now I might spend more time at DHS since I read they are not having the Epcot Arch lights, I am so bummed about that. I was so looking forward to it. Are you writing a trip report or dining review?

Laura - so good to see you sista!!:cutie: I know you made the decision that is best for you and it sounds like a good one. That accupuncture thing sounds very interesting. I am so glad it worked for you. I hope the bleeding gets under control. One day at a time. You are a fighter and I know you will get through this too,. Remember, we are fearfully and wonderfully made, I think the drs. think I am more of the fearfully made one lately. Rest and heal my dear sista. Prayers and blessings for you always. Its good hanging with God, put on some Hillsong etc!!

Sha - I will be missing you and Elizabeth in DW. I am right between the both of you. (9-16) but its good that you are taking your mom there. It will do her good and a great time to celebrate everythig.

Guess where dh took me this morning?? To the hosp. to see the radiation oncologist. I of course, feel so bad when I see so many peole worse off than me right now. I almost feel guilty. I think she was also happy to see someone look a little better than the normal pts. she sees etc. I saw one teen/young adult girl with her mom. I think its so hard on them, knowing my ds too. She said I am doing fantastic!! She will look at my new blood tests when I get them. She said I will do the low iodine diet in June probably after I see her and I will get like 5 mic of radiation for the scan and the horrible 2 shots again. I think I will ask if I could take zofran or compazine etc. before or maybe that is not allowed, at least I will know what to expect this time. I wanted to do it after dh and I celebrate our anniv. and my b day. Nothing like not being able to eat the cake on your b day. She also is doing a study. I might be part of it. I dont know.. I dont know when she is ending it. Its just statistics of blood and the scan. I asked her if she got any other patients with the rare variant I have. She said she got a few, but really lumps them into just one group since its so rare, she does the columnar cell (what I have), tall cell (similar) and hurthle cell together. At least she was more positive and in a better mood this time.

GTAGWTA, Thinking of you all.
 
bhmrowe, I also thank you for sharing your story. Having a toddler and going through all that you have says volumes about you. I know you were motivated to get through it.

I am glad you were BRAC negative. What is the P-53 gene?

I asked my doctor about gene testing. He seems more concerned about my sister having it, as does her doctor as well.

So you must be barely 30 now.

It sounds like you have covered all the bases.

I hate this disease and what it does to our lives and the lives of our family members.

What I am livid about right now is the garbage about stepping back from screening guides lines. It is a huge step backwards. I thought preventative health care was the answer. Now they tell us oh so sorry, we were wrong all these years?

I don't want to become political but is this just a way to reduce the costs covered by the public option? The timing is very suspect in my book. I heard a quote by the head of the task force that issued the new recommendations on my way home tonight. She actually said the net benefit of the current screening guidelines is small. Is she a lunatic?

I want to find out her name so I can tell her what I think of the risk of an unnecessary biopsy compared to the risk of belated diagnosis that will occur due to eliminating for annual screening starting at 40.

I hope survivors and all women for that matter speak up before these recommendations go into place. Or is it too late?

I am over 50 and I will pay for my annual regardless.

I know there are underserved minorities who are can not even afford screening mammograms every other year. Do all of us have to give up what we currently "enjoy" in coverage in order for the underserved to receive what they need. I think we all should have annual mammograms.

1984 here we come!

Hey forget screening, wouldn't it be cheaper for the government to pass a law that we just all have double mastectomies at puberty and be done with it?

I am sorry I am bitter right now.

I am also still in shock at my friend's news who had her thyroid gland removed last Monday. She waited 4 or more days longer than she expected for the pathology results. I guess the pathologists were checking and rechecking their findings. Her surgeon finally filled her in on Monday, and he prefaced it by saying, don't kill the messenger. The one and only biopsy she had (she had a series of inconclusive ones) that showed cancer cells that led to her thyroid removal was not from her tissue!!! The pathology, the largest one in town, mixed up the slides somehow. So she had her healthy thyroid removed for no reason. She told me yesterday that she and her husband had offers for positions in the Middle East (they are both highly regarded engineers with a major chemical and a major oil company.) She said they would have been able to retire maybe 10 years early. They turned down the offers due to the cancer surgery and the expectation of the need for future treatment that they wanted to happen in this part of the world.

I think she needs to raise a stink with the path group. Instead of communicating the error with her directly, they let the surgeon do it. Cowards!! There needs to be consequences for this in my book, aren't there protocols in place to keep this from happening?

They did my path work too. Makes me wonder. I wondered back in 2004 if the A team was on the case with my pathology since it was Memorial Day weekend.

I just want this out in the open so that it does not happen to another patient. You have to wonder if the person whose tissue was used to diagnose my friend was notified he/she was the one with cancer?

I am very agitated but I will get off my soap box now.

sorry.
 
oh my Laurie! That is horrible... and you are right... the pathologists are cowards in this case.
 
Hey everyone! Having a fantastic time here.

So I saw the doc today. There will be a surgery in my future. Dr. McC at MDA will decide. If he sees something on the MRI, we'll do another pit surgery. If he doesn't, then we're opting for the adrenalectomy.

I really don't know which I want. Neither is good.

So I guess I'll just concentrate on having a heck of a day tomorrow since it will be my last full day here. :sad1:
 
Enjoy, honugirl!

I am encouraged by the promise of surgery! Post more when you know more!

Sha, the WA is down the road that goes to Wyndham bonnet Creek which was built a few years back. If you are facing the Caribbean Beach resort, it is the resort directly to the left. It is not marked as well as disney resorts but there are smal sized signes saying bonnet Creek. As you go back ont he bonnet Crrek road, the Wyndham is first on your left. You keep going and the WA and the Hilton are further down on the right. Does that help?
 
I was so agitated about the step backward in mammogram screening last night I could not sleep.

I don't know if any of you have read the book, Bathesheba's breast. It is hard to get through but is eye opening. I see this government edict about the change in guides lines as a clue as to what is to come. It is not much of a leap at least for me for the government to look next at chemo. What is the "net benefit" of chemo? I am sure they will find in their "research" that the chemo does not help some women, or maybe only marginally. They can make the statistics say what they want. I still believe that it helps enough women to justify its use.

I am not directly biased here, I never had chemo, neither did my mom.

I am extremely worried about my daughters though. Initially, I thought these new guidelines would not affect women with a family history. At this moment I do not trust the powers that be in Washington to make the right decision on this.

If some advocate group plans a 1 million survivor march on Washington, I will be there with bells on.

This is not the time to back down. I am also composing very direct letters/emails to my represenative and senators. I will also be phoning them with my concerns.

Vive the Revolution!!

I am generally not a rabid advocate about anything but this issue has ruffled my feathers as I am sure you can surmise.
 
I just saw an ad on the TV from one of the big law firms, for women to get annual mammograms. I never noticed it before now.
 
Well this is topical for sure. The Senate vote on the health care bill is scheduled for tomorrow.

I would have no trouble lending my name to a legal action.
 
I know I said I was not going to go political crazy with y'all but this is the email I received last night.

This evening Senate Majority Leader Harry Reid will unveil to a Democrat caucus the healthcare overhaul bill that’s been worked on behind closed doors for weeks. A full Senate vote on whether or not to proceed with this bill is expected this Friday.

While all the details of the secret bill are yet to be revealed, we do know that some Senators plan to fight against any conscience protections for life-affirming medical professionals and faith-based hospitals and clinics. Without conscience protections for life-affirming medical professionals and institutions, millions of patients may lose access to the care they depend upon.

Some Senators also plan to demand expensive government-run health care—like the “public option” already passed in the House bill. Analysts note that government-run health care will delay and deny—in other words, ration--health care for many patients.

The House bill for the moment includes conscience protections (through the Stupak amendment) but ONLY has protection related to abortion. Now abortion advocates in Congress are plotting to get rid of even that conscience protection.

This Friday’s expected vote on whether or not to proceed with the Senate bill is expected to be extremely close. Just one of your Senators could make the difference! (Below is a list of Senators considered crucial.)

Call your Senators today (http://www.capwiz.com/nrlc/dbq/officials/) and tell them to VOTE NO on any bill that:

Fails to include broad conscience protections for medical professionals and institutions.
Includes government-run health care that will mean delay and denial of care to many patients.
Unless we speak out now, Congress may pass a bill that tramples conscience rights and puts patients at the mercy of the government. Thank you for taking a stand!

Senators considered crucial:
Bayh
Byrd
Casey
Collins
Conrad
Dorgan
T. Johnson
Landrieu
Lincoln
McCaskill
Nelson
Pryor
Reid
Snowe
Warner

Take it for what it is worth, but consider contacting your senator about the mammography guideline change.
 
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