Yes, I agree you guys. There really is a lot of exciting news in BC research and treatment. Much to be hopeful about.
Ann, I didn't see that about Dr. Love, but that's always good. It's interesting to hear that some people in the Boston medical community have mixed reactions to her and I'm not really sure why.

I know for myself, reading her book scared the bejeezus out of me, but OTOH she was straightforward and once I got over the initial shock, I found what she had to say very helpful (albeit frightening).
snappy, thanks for the articles, I will look at them later.
I was thinking of you all last night and figured you could probably appreciate the experience I had.
I went to a Christmas party and was literally
cornered 
by a well meaning young woman who told me, at length, the story of her MIL who has BC with recent mets, as well as the stories of all of her multiple other family members with cancer.

I walked away twice but she followed me.

I had to resort to telling her that although they were very sad, her stories were beginning to frighten me, that it's important for me to stay positive for myself etc - and even that I was sure I'd be having nightmares in my sleep that night.

I felt badly because the stories really were sad, but it kind of put a damper on the night for me when all I really wanted to do was partake in a little holiday cheer with my friends and family and forget my usual worries for a while.

Instead I felt bummed out.
DH always laughs and tells me I attract these people "like flies to dung", LOL.

I really do enjoy talking to people and normally don't avoid the cancer conversations. But this was really a bit too much. Anyone else ever have this happen? How do you handle it?
