Yes, they eat off your plate. We will have a 2.5 yo in Sept and we are doing buffet or family style for our TS except Le Cellier for lunch one day. Whispering Canyon has an all-you can eat option and Ohana us family style and then we have buffets - Chef Mickey's, Boma, Crystal Palace, and Cape May. We have 6 adults and a child so i'm not worried in the least about him having enough to eat at CS or Le Cellier!