Get Dr. Jean's song--Rules Rap Then spend several weeks before school starts taking pictures of each item in your classroom. Trace its shape on tag and tape it to the shelf where it belongs along with its picture. Then at the beginning of school, play the Rules Rap several times a day. Act out how you want each rule to look. Don't let the children into a center until you have taught them what to do in each center. Practice cleaning up.
Young children need to know your expectations. Then give recognition when you catch the children doing what you want. You don't need to give extravagant praise....just say, "Look at Mary! She is sitting with her hands and feet to herself!" "Listen to Billy! He is using his small voice inside." "Bob just put that puzzle exactly in its spot. He knows how to clean up."
I taught for many years and usually had more children than other classes because the "difficult" kids always got put in my class.......and they behaved because they knew what they were supposed to do! I expected them to do a good job and they did.
Dr. Jean Feldman performs this song on Is Everybody Happy? that is one of her CDs. All her CDs are great.
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Chorus:
The rules, the rules, the rules of the classroom. (Snap fingers.)
The rules, the rules, the rules of the classroom.
Follow, follow, follow directions, (Point index fingers.)
Follow, follow, follow directions.
Chorus
Feet and hands, feet and hands, (Point to feet and hands.)
Feet and hands to yourself.
Chorus
Small voices inside, tall voices on the playground.
(Quiet voice, then loud voice.)
Small voices inside, tall voices on the playground.
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Work together, don't fight, or you'll get in trouble.
(Clasp hands, then point finger.)
Work together, don't fight, or you'll get in trouble.
Chorus
YEAH!)