The Palo dress code can be perplexing.
My niece showed up to brunch in jeans (ripped jeans as a matter of fact, designer, but ripped) and they didn't ask her to change. But we were in the private room, so I figured that might have been why they were more lenient. She said some folks definitely stared daggers at her as she walked by though. She claimed she didn't know she was supposed to dress up...
We once watched 2 couples walk up for brunch; one of the men was wearing faded khaki cargo pants and a very casual knit shirt, the other was wearing a nice pair of jeans and a button down dress shirt. IMO jeans guy looked
much nicer, but of course he was the one who had to change.
I'm just glad I'm not the one who has to enforce the dress code.
If it were me I'd keep the tea time and head to wherever they're handling Palo requests once onboard. We've always found them to be very accomodating about switching days and/or times if you find you have a conflict. I think they do a lot of shuffling those first few days.
Yep, spotted your DD rocking her Stitch hat right away.

It's a good thing it's a 10 day cruise, that should give us some time to chat, we may need it. DD has stents courtesy Dr. Dake.