Did you "invite" your officiant?

[Tabetha]

You know, like, did you send your officiant an actual invitation to your wedding?

Just curious!

 

[lurkyloo]

I did, but our pastor was a family friend who came all the way from California to do the wedding. I haven't heard of anyone sending an invite to the Orlando-area officiants... they are kinda working, more than being guests...

 

[jennifaerie]

I did as well. She's a coworker, and I knew she'd like to have one.

I've tried to find etiquette on it, but all I can find is "Do you invite your officiant to the reception?".

 

[Tabetha]

Yeah, I'm pretty sure I'd read that you should send an invitation, but in my mind its like "hey, we have a contract".

Maybe it's different if you're doing a wedding at home with your own minister...