I remember times when we used to fight over who got to lay on the ledge of the back window.
There is no doubt that my kids benefit hugely from my bad experiences traveling with my parents who saved at every opportunity and never really had a plan for what to do once we got somewhere. It was a different generation though, so it's somewhat understandable, and their focus was at least on trying to give the kids memories and fun things to do, but it was just kind of wrongheaded and poorly executed.
My dad worked for the airlines, so we could fly for virtually free and save even more money by staying places off season (traveling off season is a good thing I learned and carried over), so we traveled often and saw a lot of things, but there was never money to do anything or eat once we got there. On top of that, my dad, by nature, is one of those people who wants to see if he can survive on say 90 cents a day everyday just to say he can, whether he has the money or not. That can be an interesting quality on an individual level, but when it's impacting little kids, it's something different.
My siblings and I would much rather have traveled far less often if it meant when we did go we'd have more money to eat, or rent a car that could actually hold five people, or not have to have one of us hide on the floorboard when we checked into a motel just in case the manager checked on how many people were in our room (and then sleeping on two chairs put together). There were also countless times where the decision was to walk instead of getting a cab or other transportation, like from the airport, just to save money, or not pay the extra surcharge for taking a taxi from the airport.
So, when I see people talking on message boards about money and how to save a few dollars, it does spark something in me from my childhood. That isn't to say if people absolutely need to save money or cut corners here and there because they just don't have the money that they shouldn't learn how to do that, or to just blow money for no reason...no one's saying a Disney trip is cheap. But I guess I'm hoping some people aren't going crazy overboard on trying to save money when they don't really have to because that kind of attitude just might ruin some of the magic they were hoping to create with their vacation...and that absolutely is not meant to be directed at any one specific person on here or anywhere else, just a general statement.
But, hey, some people know how to have fun and enjoy life within their means, and some people absolutely do not and never will and there's nothing anyone can do about it.