dcentity2000 said:
Well, any response is good 
Rich::
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Okay - here's my story.. (And please keep in mind that I have LOADS of experience via myself and my adult DD..)
A number of years ago, I was diagnosed (correctly) as being "clinically depressed" and went through several months of counseling and being medicated.. (Ironically it was Prozac - everything else made me deathly ill..) The proposed treatments worked, I went off the medication, discontinued the counseling, and all was well..
Since that time I have had bouts of "minor" depression - nothing serious enough to require medication - and have managed to pull myself out of the minor episodes via what I learned in counseling and what I made a
point of learning on my own..
This past January, I lost my husband of 28 years to a long list of illnesses.. I think (and I've been told) that I have handled that loss (along with a lengthy list of others that have occured since last fall) remarkably well.. I know what "depression" is and thank God I have not fallen back into that black hole - neither clinical nor minor.. Once in awhile I'll get a little frustrated.. Once in awhile I'll have a problem sleeping.. Once in awhile I'll start to worry about things that cannot be changed by "worrying".. But the point I'm trying to make is that if I were to go to a doctor right now - list for him all of the losses and changes in my life since last fall - tell him that my DH just passed away in January - I am
100% positive that he would INSIST that I am depressed and want to put me on medication..
So in my case, I believe there is a good chance that I would be medicated for a condition that doesn't currently exist..
On the other hand, my DD has suffered from severe clinical depression for years and until just recently was 100% unable to manage WITHOUT antidepressants and weekly counseling.. She's finally turned the corner and is doing remarkably well.. Her condition has reached a point where she's able to think about alternatives to managing her life and use much of the same methods that I do to get her over the "minor" episodes.. The only thing she requires now is a sleep aid - and with any luck, she'll eventually reach a point where she doesn't need that either..
So the bottom line is there are times when medication is needed (and appropriate) and other times where medication is pushed on people who really don't need it.. It's really not a "one-size-fits-all" situation..
