Captain_Oblivious
DIS Dad #257, Galactic Salad Dodger
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Today is Ethan's 7th birthday and memories of when we were in NY adopting him are just flodding back like it was yesterday. The image that is continuing to go through my mind is the one (on Christmas Eve 2004) where his birthmom signed the papers to terminate her parental rights and how she and Shari together dressed him to leave the hosptial and then how she turned at looked at him for the final time with total heartbreak on her face knowing that she had no other choice but to do this. Also, at that very minute a tear rolled down Ethans cheek. There was no crying from him...just a single tear. it was so emotional that the attorney had to leave the room. We were blessed to be there when Ethan was born and blessed even more to have him with us each and every day since. I think from time to time about his birthmohter and birthfather, and wonder if they ever think of him. Esepcially on days like today. Or, I wonder if it is something that they have tried to not think about because of the pain it would cause. One of her saddest days was one of our happiest days!
Happy birthday Ethan! What a story. Bravo to you and everyone else who is willing to adopt.
Do any of you guys have to travel to family for Christmas or are you spending it in your own homes??? Thankfully our families are all close by here.
My in-laws moved down to Dover, DE a few years ago to be close to their grandchildren, and as it turns out, they're only 2 minutes from my parents' place. So we do Christmas morning at our house and then head 30 minutes down the road and get all the family business done in 1 afternoon. Works out great.
That being said, my wife and I were talking wistfully about how cool it would be to wake up to 2 ft. of snow on the ground and be forced to stay at home all day.

First Christmas in a few years that we are alone, even DS's Godparents, who we normally do the other holidays with, are heading up to Ohio. It's going to be great, I stacked the gifts heavily towards Lego this year so i'll have 8 days of building to keep me busy......us busy.......yeah yeah the Lego is for DS, that right, keep "us" busy.
4) I am a huge geek.

New to the threads. Just thought I would say hi and am looking forward to reading and getting involved in the discussions on here.
Welcome to the nut-house!

I just have to make it until 330 Friady and then I am off all next week!!! Hopefully no stones will interefre with this little break 


Life has been zipping along at an incredible pace right now and just haven't had time or energy to get in here. I know there are new dads that need officially welcomed and I hope to get to them soon! Haven't even transferred the photos to my computer yet from the vacation last week!
Now I get to put up drywall and finish off the room. About another week of nights and weekends... and a little break for Christmas. Sheesh.
We found the chocolate chex but it tasted really gross. There was something that screwed up the mix and the company sent us a check to apologize. Since then we've stayed away from it because it tasted so bad that we're afraid to try it again. It tasted like old fish. Really gross.