Good morning...
Things went relatively well, all things considered. I have found out that while I have the kids I do not have temporary custody. What is in effect is a safety plan that lets me have the kids based on Sara's willingness to let them be here. After talking with the social worker, as of right now he has no plans to remove them from the home but suggests that I could file and be granted the temporary custody. I do have to have him come out and do a home visit some time today. What amazes me is that long ago I met the social worker as he was assigned to one of neighbors who was causing problems for everyone on the street. Along with taking the baby to the doctors as he is sick! I talked to my sister briefly this morning she acts like the only problem is the boyfriend. And since he is gone well she can do what she wants.
I am so sick to my stomach, things are so confusing. Eric and I will be filing for the custody tomorrow and I have to let Sara know that is my plan. I know I am doing the right thing but nonetheless I just want to crawl in a hole.